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Advice On A Girl
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Hi everyone. Im new here and felt really lost about this girl so i'll describe what's going on and if you want, you could give me some advice. Cheers!
Basically, my mate was obsessed with this girl for 18 months! He was constantly tryin to pull her but she was just too different ie. she's very shy and he's the very loud, entertaining type (that every group of friends have). As a result of this I got introduced to her and then got to know her.
He seems to have cooled off now and just before Christmas I was told by a friend that she liked me. I was surprised but didn't really think much of it. But after we'd txt each other most nights and meet up with friends whenever we could, I started to develop a thing for her as she's a lovely girl.
I thought New Years Eve would be the best time to make a move but as I was working, it would have to wait until i'd finished. She rang me and told me where she and her friends were, we met up and i then found out she'd got off with another lad. <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
We spent around 3 hours just walkin round with everyone but she was almost constantly linked in arms with me. I couldn't say or do anything after she'd done it with someone else so we just chatted like we always have done.
I feel really depressed and can't get her out of my head. We met up the day after and I just know she likes me. You can tell when there's something in the air.
At 18 I thought all this 'funny love' stuff would be out of the way. How wrong was I!?!
So please, feel free to comment. Cheers!
Basically, my mate was obsessed with this girl for 18 months! He was constantly tryin to pull her but she was just too different ie. she's very shy and he's the very loud, entertaining type (that every group of friends have). As a result of this I got introduced to her and then got to know her.
He seems to have cooled off now and just before Christmas I was told by a friend that she liked me. I was surprised but didn't really think much of it. But after we'd txt each other most nights and meet up with friends whenever we could, I started to develop a thing for her as she's a lovely girl.
I thought New Years Eve would be the best time to make a move but as I was working, it would have to wait until i'd finished. She rang me and told me where she and her friends were, we met up and i then found out she'd got off with another lad. <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
We spent around 3 hours just walkin round with everyone but she was almost constantly linked in arms with me. I couldn't say or do anything after she'd done it with someone else so we just chatted like we always have done.
I feel really depressed and can't get her out of my head. We met up the day after and I just know she likes me. You can tell when there's something in the air.
At 18 I thought all this 'funny love' stuff would be out of the way. How wrong was I!?!
So please, feel free to comment. Cheers!
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Its up to her what happens next! By the sounds of it id say ud b pretty good together!
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She's the sweetest girl I know and she's very pretty also so whats stopping me!?! There seems to be something there that's been planted in the way. I think it's the fact that she got off with this lad on New Years Eve.
Please dont be shy and post something. Im dying here!
I want it to be just right and tell her exactly how I feel. I know that sounds very girly but thats how I feel about it.
Tell her how much she means to you but dont let her take advantage of you.
Good Luck!!
If you remember my story, my friend fancied this girl for 18 months and she just wasn't having any of it. Found him very annoying and just, basically wasn't his type.
Now he's said to be really pissed off cause he thinks me and this girl are going out (which isn't true yet) and that this is makin the girl ignore him ie. she's spending too much time with me. Ive asked her about this and she says he upsets her so I obviously dont wanna push her and let her get hurt.
Another twist is that my friend lost his mum last year and he depends upon this girl for support as she's lost her dad also. He won't open up to anyone else. Im thinking of it like he's leaning on her and if i take her away he'll topple over into a right mess.
In the meantime though she's making it more and more obvious she likes me.
What to do, what to do??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">
There's no time like the present, so go for it.
I think she will admire your honesty, and hopefully, she'll see that you truly do, care for her.
i'm sure you will make a happy couple.
If she doesn't want a relationship, let it go, but still regard your friendship, as you did before you told her.
I am sure things will work out and i hope they do, Best of luck
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