Is it love ??

Former Member

Hey peeps
Right I've met this girl on the net, and to cut a very long story short we have ended up "going out". We are s'posed to be meeting up this Monday, and she hasnt been online to talk about it (but i'll phone her or whatever).
Now she has said she dosent care what I look like, which is good I s'pose, but it does matter. I am really skinny (will she like that ??), I have hardly any mates (she does !!). She says she loves my personality etc, but she has a social life etc, and I dont.
I know she gets a lot of male attention at school, and I like her a lot so far. It just goes round and round in my head, bcoz the very fact I have been waiting for her to come online for a few hours suggests that I'm too obsessed with her but I cant get her off my mind.
Any suggestions ??

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"you don't love a person because they're beautiful, they're beautiful because you love them."

If she said that she likes your personality and that looks don't matter, then she obviously likes you for you. Isn't it better to have someone who is in love with your personality rather than the hard exterior?

Don't worry about it. let those insecurities melt away and go have the time of ur life <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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And i 4got to say, just be yourself because that is who she likes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; don't try and put on an act or anything to impress her like ppl sumtimes do.

now go have the time of your life

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Former Member

Hey Mojo,

I know what you mean I got into the same situation with this girl I know online. We met by accident in a chat room (as I rarely use them but for once I did (Not planning to make any friends) anyway we fell for each other... i used to sit waiting for hours for her to come back online because when i first met her she was on holiday in Canada which is 5-6 hours behind... but now she is in France (where she lives) and so the difference is only 1hr, however she doesn't have free access so chat is limited. Anyway, my point is, we denied our feelings for so long as the whole relationship seemed un-feasable to us, but after recently meeting up and spending so long phoning each other we have really fallen head over heels and are now an item, but our problem is we have the English Channel and several hundred miles gap to consider before meeting... d'oh. You probably live considerably closer to your girl.

We all get obsessed from time to time. Obsessions can be a problem in a relationship if you smother a person too much... I'm just rambling now... all the best Mojo

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insane, im glad it went well meeting that girl you kept talking about <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

as for your prob mojo, its perfectly possible to meet someone on the internet. its a good place to get to know people because you just talk to them and get to know their personality, so its that that she likes about you so looks arent top priorty (like in a club or something like that). so yeah go with drifters advice, be yourself, and things should hopefully go well! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Thts right she likes you for you...don't worry about all that other stuff, i met by bloke on the net he didn't look owt like his photo, but we clicked before we met. He isn't all that broad, quite thin really, where as i am er well curvy to put it nicely, you could say we are like chalk and cheese to look at but we get on so well, he has i social life...i didn't, same as you, but that turned out to my advantage because he introduced me to his mates and now i have a right laugh, he's made me a more confident person in myself. Trust me , you will be fine. Lets us know how it goes!! Opposites attract!!!!