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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 22.09.25

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  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 2,380 Boards Champion
    Redemption wrote: »
    Im struggling

    @Redemption sorry i took a while to reply bro. Like AnimalloverB says, we're all here for you. I know this might not count for a lot, but not a single one of us here has an issue with you at all. Some individuals on courses will be strict and a bit power mad and tell people off for no good reason, other times, there might be people on courses who are generally unsavoury people. But that doesn't make you an issue at all. You're there, you're trying, and you should take pride in that.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Really appreciate it and thats all good about the slow replies but everything you're saying means a lot to me @Animalloverb , I hope everything is ok with that.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Thank you so much @DonnerKebab I hope you're ok today, I was thinking if I made the right decision doing this course over the other one, there's no going back now though, the latest was probably Friday to go on the other course, Sunday absolute max and thats pushing it . I don’t think its absolutely the wrong move because they said for other one be absolutely certain and gave some guidance. I just hate the small talk at the start of the day lol.
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    @Redemption
    Your welcome.
    And also thank you so much for understanding that my replies won't be the fastest today.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Animalloverb wrote: »
    @Redemption
    Your welcome.
    And also thank you so much for understanding that my replies won't be the fastest today.

    @Animalloverb Ill always try my best to understand and its no problem, I completely 100 percent get you're busy in your own life too. Just a quick reminder to you that you're incredible and dont let anyone tell you otherwise ❤️.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Atleast 1 of the people said they who runs my course is the same age as me like they are actually so far ahead of me, I know I shouldn’t compare myself to people I'm like a broken record doing it but it is really easy to and really hard not too especially under some circumstances I might have.
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    @Redemption
    Thank you
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    @Redemption
    I also have seen that you said you hope everything with my court goes okay.
    As of right now everything is looking promising and the child will legally be my son by the end of either this month or next month if I keep fighting.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Animalloverb wrote: »
    @Redemption
    I also have seen that you said you hope everything with my court goes okay.
    As of right now everything is looking promising and the child will legally be my son by the end of either this month or next month if I keep fighting.

    @Animalloverb I'm so glad its looking promising and it does sound promising I wish the absolute best with it ❤️
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,618 Supreme Poster
    hi..
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • CutelivejazzCutelivejazz Posts: 225 Trailblazer
    I feel emotionally numb like nothing feels real guess im disassociating again
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    hi..

    Hi Eylah ❤️
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    Thank you @Redemption
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,618 Supreme Poster
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi..

    Hi Eylah ❤️

    hi!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 23
    Animalloverb wrote: »
    Thank you @Redemption

    No worries, hopefully see you in chat
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    eylah wrote: »
    Redemption wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hi..

    Hi Eylah ❤️

    hi!

    Did you manage to do your cooking today?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Last night was maybe a bit overwhelming like I struggled to sleep, I think I'm ok this morning, I was having a little bit of normal sickness but I think thats normal, just the body adjusting to daily grind.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Im overwhelmed again, I was contacted about a job but it was cleaning which I dont want to and now im stressing and overwhelmed because I didnt take it but I don't want to do cleaning its stressing me out. Life's so overwhelming
  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,165 Boards Champion
    Hey @Redemption - it's perfectly okay to feel that way and to have rejected the job. Some options/jobs just aren't suited to us as people and that is more than okay. Fingers crossed something more up your street comes soon :3
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    sinead276 wrote: »
    Hey @Redemption - it's perfectly okay to feel that way and to have rejected the job. Some options/jobs just aren't suited to us as people and that is more than okay. Fingers crossed something more up your street comes soon :3

    Thank you @sinead276 , feels like ive not seen you around for a little while, I hope you're well and I like your new profile picture BTW, really bright.
  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,165 Boards Champion
    @Redemption - thanks. it has been a little while since i've properly been on here other than the odd message here or there. Hope you're doing well too.

    And I thought i'd get into the halloween spirit (even if it is only September 😂)
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    sinead276 wrote: »
    @Redemption - thanks. it has been a little while since i've properly been on here other than the odd message here or there. Hope you're doing well too.

    And I thought i'd get into the halloween spirit (even if it is only September 😂)

    @sinead276 we missed you. Im getting there and slowly will get where I want be. Fair enough, not too far away like maybe 4 weeks plus but yh, I don't really celebrate Halloween, its on same day on Marcus Rashford's birthday, Im not sure if you know who he is. Im waffling how any like always lol, sorry. I hope you're days going well too.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 24
    I can't help but regret not taking the job, I felt a bit anxious and down about it and feel like I'm not helping myself
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    Im struggling
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    Sorry to hear that you were struggling this morning @Redemption

    How are you doing now?
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 25
    Animalloverb wrote: »
    Sorry to hear that you were struggling this morning @Redemption

    How are you doing now?

    Hey @Animalloverb , Im ok thanks so much just that job thing was getting to me, I should have looked into it atleast
  • AnimalloverbAnimalloverb Posts: 432 Listening Ear
    Glad to hear your doing okay now @Redemption
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    I made chat so heavy today, Im sorry, its ok to cry or let everything out sometimes
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 9,618 Supreme Poster
    im rly not doing well. i wish i had someone irl who could give me a hug. :( ( my bf cant bc he’s not here.)
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 5,696 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 26
    eylah wrote: »
    im rly not doing well. i wish i had someone irl who could give me a hug. :( ( my bf cant bc he’s not here.)

    A virtual hug from me @eylah
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