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  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    you won’t be lonely will you if i go for a snooze? i just don’t know how im gonna function on the bus down to town tmr if i don’t snooze lol
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    my body doesn’t like staying awake lol

    @eylah preaching to the choir that is. That's like 90% of humanity. And once i've done that and my brother is at school tomorrow, i'm not even able to sleep cause i'm going out to watch 28 years later. Already got it booked in so no cancelling :'(

    what’s 28 years later?

    it's a zombie film. They used a Rudyard Kipling poem in the trailer, which was written after the Boer war, and recorded in WW1. The same haunting recording of it from 1915. So i kind of have to watch it now 😂😂 That is a real haunting and emotional recording. More so than anything i've ever seen before, if you've never heard it.

    oh that’s interesting! is it in cinema?

    @eylah yeah. It's out now in cinema and i'm going tomorrow to watch it. Genuinely scary trailer. And the poem being recited actually made me cry the first time i ever heard it, when somebody put it over a short clip of all quite on the western front. Really sad. I can link it if you want but it's a tear jerker and haunting.

    i just looked it up and it looks rly interesting!!

    @eylah the boots edit that i first heard and made me cry is this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-sc0VcQwvQ

    It's not a supernatural horror, but horror in the things people can do to one another in the sense of the war. I don't want you to get scared at this time by it though, so it might be best to wait until morning to watch it.
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    ill watch it when its day light outside 🤣
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    edited June 2025
    eylah wrote: »
    you won’t be lonely will you if i go for a snooze? i just don’t know how im gonna function on the bus down to town tmr if i don’t snooze lol

    @eylah don't worry, i won't be. I'm gonna play my game a bit i think. Thank you for spending most of the night with me my favourite twat in the world. have a good sleep <3
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    ill watch it when its day light outside 🤣

    @eylah Definitely the best idea. Watching now would be haunting.
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    you won’t be lonely will you if i go for a snooze? i just don’t know how im gonna function on the bus down to town tmr if i don’t snooze lol

    @eylah don't worry, i won't be. I'm gonna play my game a bit i think. Thank you for spending most of the night with me my favourite twat in the world. have a good sleep <3

    @DonnerKebab of course. <3 my favourite twat itw! im gonna go for a power nap ill be awake at 7:20 lol and will msg you when im awake. on here gn <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    you won’t be lonely will you if i go for a snooze? i just don’t know how im gonna function on the bus down to town tmr if i don’t snooze lol

    @eylah don't worry, i won't be. I'm gonna play my game a bit i think. Thank you for spending most of the night with me my favourite twat in the world. have a good sleep <3

    @DonnerKebab of course. <3 my favourite twat itw! im gonna go for a power nap ill be awake at 7:20 lol and will msg you when im awake. on here gn <3

    @eylah night night my favourite twat <3
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    ill watch it when its day light outside 🤣

    @eylah Definitely the best idea. Watching now would be haunting.

    i don’t want nightmares 🤣 i already get them lol i don’t want them again.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    you won’t be lonely will you if i go for a snooze? i just don’t know how im gonna function on the bus down to town tmr if i don’t snooze lol

    @eylah don't worry, i won't be. I'm gonna play my game a bit i think. Thank you for spending most of the night with me my favourite twat in the world. have a good sleep <3

    @DonnerKebab of course. <3 my favourite twat itw! im gonna go for a power nap ill be awake at 7:20 lol and will msg you when im awake. on here gn <3

    @eylah night night my favourite twat <3

    nighty night my favourite twat also <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    @DonnerKebab you ok today bro?
  • Summerjune15Summerjune15 Posts: 171 Helping Hand
    Wait what happened @DonnerKebab I’m so confused
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    Summerjune15 wrote: »
    Wait what happened @DonnerKebab I’m so confused

    @Summerjune15 yes, got another message apparently I committed hate speech now in that chat last night according to the mix.
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    @DonnerKebab im going to miss you so much this won’t be the same now for me. 😭❤️ pls take gd care of yourself. <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 6,749 Master Poster
    @DonnerKebab We are all going to miss you mate. You're an amazing person, I truly hope everything is OK, I respect your decision if thats what you want. Keep being amazing if this is your decision you want to take. Hopefully we'll see you return.
  • Summerjune15Summerjune15 Posts: 171 Helping Hand
    @DonnerKebab we will miss you but thank you for everything❤️
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hey everyone!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Summerjune15Summerjune15 Posts: 171 Helping Hand
    hey eylah
  • independent_independent_ Community Connector Posts: 10,126 An Original Mixlorian
    @DonnerKebab I am so grateful for your support. If you ever do want to come back, as far as I’m concerned you would be very welcome. You didn’t mean any harm I’m absolutely certain of that.
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    Summerjune15 wrote: »
    hey eylah

    how’re you?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • AnonymousToeAnonymousToe Posts: 2,818 Boards Guru
    Take care @DonnerKebab The Mix is a mess nowadays and I’m sorry it’s affected you like this. I wasn’t in the chat but from what I’ve read, I don’t think the response from whoever it was at the mix needed to be so intense. Thank you for being so kind to everyone here, I know we haven’t interacted much but I see you supporting everyone <3 we will welcome you back here as members, but you’re totally allowed to step away for as long as you need to. Be kind to yourself <3
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,616 Boards Guru
    this is so random but phone calls send me straight into a panic, i hate them so so much. this person from work has called me so i text them back explaining how i don’t like phone calls and we then had the conversation over text. now she is once again phoning me like what does she not understand about the fact i do NOT like phone calls😫
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,616 Boards Guru
    lol i just listened to her voice mail and she said it’s to discuss the new starter medical questionnaire - i filled this in about 5 months ago now, and it was already discussed via text message too… i really wanna be like “it’s ok though dw i have a new job now” but i haven’t told my manager yet so i cant aghhh
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    hey everyone!

    @shannon_164 tell her to kindly piss off if she continues to not respect your boundaries. can you block her? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,616 Boards Guru
    she wants to discuss what we have already discussed lol i just text her back saying “ Hi, as I have previously explained, I do not like phone calls so if it could be done over text instead that would be appreciated.” then i listened to her voicemail after and then replied with “I have just listened to your voicemail stating how we need to discuss the medical questionnaire, isn’t that what was discussed via text previously…?” so i hope she replies soon!

    how are you? <3
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    she wants to discuss what we have already discussed lol i just text her back saying “ Hi, as I have previously explained, I do not like phone calls so if it could be done over text instead that would be appreciated.” then i listened to her voicemail after and then replied with “I have just listened to your voicemail stating how we need to discuss the medical questionnaire, isn’t that what was discussed via text previously…?” so i hope she replies soon!

    how are you? <3

    hopefully she does! <3

    im okay i might have some ice cream i brought some from lidl today!! <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 2,616 Boards Guru
    hopefully @eylah - i’m patiently waiting on her reply haha

    ooo what flavour? i found icecream in lidl one time before and it was soo good and now you’ve made me want some again hehehe
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,561 An Original Mixlorian
    shannon_164 wrote: »
    hopefully @eylah - i’m patiently waiting on her reply haha

    ooo what flavour? i found icecream in lidl one time before and it was soo good and now you’ve made me want some again hehehe

    it’s chocolate chip!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Posts: 5,348 Part of The Furniture
    I’m going primark tmr 🥰
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