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  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    toffuna101 wrote: »
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    @toffuna101 , @River , @independent_ @Redemption @shannon_164 , and everybody else, cause i know i'm forgetting a few, sorry if i missed you out, this applies to you all too.

    so im guessing the self-love o'clock is at 7pm, is that right?

    @toffuna101 It varies from time to time, but today...... yes it is

    ok
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!

    thank you for sending me hugs by the way
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!

    thank you for sending me hugs by the way

    i like giving hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!

    thank you for sending me hugs by the way

    i like giving hugs 🫂

    same tbh. only if the person who is receiving the hugs is comfortable with them of course.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab cant catch me I’m the gingerbread man 😂
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!

    thank you for sending me hugs by the way

    i like giving hugs 🫂

    same tbh. only if the person who is receiving the hugs is comfortable with them of course.

    that’s why i asked you before giving you them ! 🥰
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah

    sending you so many hugs 🫂 ( if ok )

    im ok with hugs dont worry

    ok gd <3 if you ever need a hug i have many ones!

    thank you for sending me hugs by the way

    i like giving hugs 🫂

    same tbh. only if the person who is receiving the hugs is comfortable with them of course.

    that’s why i asked you before giving you them ! 🥰

    its good that you asked
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    ooh i earnt the 2500 comments badge
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River didn't lord farquad manage to capture the gingerbread man?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab i don’t know :lol:
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    I reached out to my old counsellor on kooth and well didn’t go well
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    @River didn't lord farquad manage to capture the gingerbread man?

    is that a shrek reference?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    I reached out to my old counsellor on kooth and well didn’t go well

    what happened when you reached out to your old counsellor if you dont mind me asking?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 It is. Do you know..... the muffin man......?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    River wrote: »
    I reached out to my old counsellor on kooth and well didn’t go well

    @River what happened if you don't mind me asking?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    @toffuna101 It is. Do you know..... the muffin man......?

    maybe, the muffin man that goes as fast as he can @DonnerKebab
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab basically turned round and said “I’m not your named worker anymore”
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River they really just said that they aren't your named worker and dropped it there?! That's messed up of them to do.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab basically turned round and said “I’m not your named worker anymore”

    damn that counsellor was pretty harsh. were they at least nice about it or were they just plain rude?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    @toffuna101 It is. Do you know..... the muffin man......?

    maybe, the muffin man that goes as fast as he can @DonnerKebab

    @toffuna101 from the first shrek film. You know the interrogation scene of the gingerbread man by lord farquad.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    @toffuna101 It is. Do you know..... the muffin man......?

    maybe, the muffin man that goes as fast as he can @DonnerKebab

    @toffuna101 from the first shrek film. You know the interrogation scene of the gingerbread man by lord farquad.

    ohh yeah i remember that scene @DonnerKebab
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    She put “I’m sorry to hear you feel that way, I am not your named worker anymore though”
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    River wrote: »
    She put “I’m sorry to hear you feel that way, I am not your named worker anymore though”

    that counsellor is a bit passive aggressive in my opinion.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    … lol
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    River wrote: »
    She put “I’m sorry to hear you feel that way, I am not your named worker anymore though”

    @River that is just dodgy of them. Really. They should have at the very least given you a new named worker rather than just saying that and ending the conversation there.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    … lol

    are you ok? @eylah
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    … lol

    @eylah you okay eylah? Still doing self care o clock?
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