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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @Redemption I'm all good thanks. Yeah, i know what you mean. When it gets too aggressive. That's why fouls were made, and yellow and red cards. Not liek scrapping, but getting to aggressive with tackles and fouls and stuff. Yeah. And if you do take up cycling, you might want to try and join a cycling group. It's not just about keeping healthy, but also socialising.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    yeah im good @eylah thanks for checking up on me <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River I think they look pretty good. I really like the first one and the last two the best.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    yeah im good @eylah thanks for checking up on me <3
    you care abt me and i care abt you <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    Thank you @DonnerKebab if I only get on a level 2 my mum won’t let me do it
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River Why not? Can i ask if it's your current mum or bio mum?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    My current mum @DonnerKebab

    It’s because I already have

    Level 2 geography
    Level 2 media
    BTEC dance and drama
    Level 2 customer service
    Level 2 employability

    Along with other qualifications
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    edited June 9
    @River education is education. I have a degree in Computer science (Cyber Security specialty) and might go onto a masters. Shouldn't bar me from doing a level 2 in something or something if i wanted to, or getting into a different field.

    You deserve the chance to get into the field you want to. And that can change, the field you want. Your mum should understand that.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River And if all else fails, and they say no, then you can always practice a bit, do a few more drawings and then try again for the level 3 course. But i think they will say yes this time round, based on the drawings you've done.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    I suppose, just can’t be bothered with another argument with my mum over it because anything I want to do she can’t be happy for me with
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RedemptionRedemption Community Connector Posts: 4,366 Community Veteran
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @Redemption I'm all good thanks. Yeah, i know what you mean. When it gets too aggressive. That's why fouls were made, and yellow and red cards. Not liek scrapping, but getting to aggressive with tackles and fouls and stuff. Yeah. And if you do take up cycling, you might want to try and join a cycling group. It's not just about keeping healthy, but also socialising.

    @DonnerKebab good you are all good, you done anything nice today? No one even gets cards or anything, that guy injured him 3 times got angry and the organiser calmed it down then nothing happened it just carried on. Yh socialising is good, I guess it varies person to person though like cycling group might make me cycling for miles, not trying to make excuses though just looking at it properly coz it can be so so uncomfortable riding miles even just 1 - 2 miles. There's swimming too but I can't swim in the deep end, don't laugh though please lol. I could maybe do a bit of swimming and riding a bike round my estate, it can be fun like a paddle shift gearbox, I don't think it's called that but it is in cars and sounds cool lol.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @River it's tough not having support in your corner through it all. I know it's little consolation, but we are in your corner, even if only virtual and online.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @Redemption Don't worry about it. Swimming in the deep end is something a lot of people struggle with. In fact, the majority of people who train to join the royal marines are actually turned away due to the swimming side requirements, needing to tread water i think it is for 5 minutes. They pass every single other thing but the swimming get's them. So don't feel bad about it. And yeah, i totally get cycling groups cycling for a lot longer than you'll be comfortable for. But i'm sure you'll find a group maybe. Adult swimming lessons might be a good place to meet people even.
    And yeah, not much exciting on my side. Just taking my brother on daily walks and that's about it.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    hey <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    hello again @eylah <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @eylah Hey eylah. how are you?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    what a masterpiece of a meme
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 are you excited to meet them, or a bit nervous?
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 are you excited to meet them, or a bit nervous?

    im excited because ive been told by my other carer that shes really sweet. @DonnerKebab
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    edited June 9
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    @toffuna101 , @River , @independent_ @Redemption @shannon_164 , and everybody else, cause i know i'm forgetting a few, sorry if i missed you out, this applies to you all too.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 7,811 Master Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
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    @toffuna101 , @River , @independent_ @Redemption @shannon_164 , and everybody else, cause i know i'm forgetting a few, sorry if i missed you out, this applies to you all too.

    so im guessing the self-love o'clock is at 7pm, is that right?
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,015 Community Veteran
    @DonnerKebab *runs from the clock*
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    odvjbyo1mk9i.png


    @toffuna101 , @River , @independent_ @Redemption @shannon_164 , and everybody else, cause i know i'm forgetting a few, sorry if i missed you out, this applies to you all too.

    so im guessing the self-love o'clock is at 7pm, is that right?

    @toffuna101 It varies from time to time, but today...... yes it is
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 604 Incredible Poster
    edited June 9
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab *runs from the clock*

    @River sorry river but the duck is faster than you. It's self care o clock whether you like it or not B) . The duck is currently being charged with war crimes and is on the FBI's top 10 most wanted list so he's a dangerous duck. Best not make him sad and just do as he says which means self care o clock.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 2,726 Boards Guru
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah I'm doing fine thanks. Surviving as usual. Found this meme for you d6o9lfv8c9o7.png

    oh scary.. :lol: youte funny 🤣

    love the meme!
    toffuna101 wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    hey hey @toffuna101 @DonnerKebab im so so howre you both? <3

    im good thanks for asking. on thursday im getting a different carer because the carers tend to switch depending on their shifts. i think she's coming at 11:20am.

    how are you feeling abt the different carers? <3

    im feeling pretty okay with it. i dont dislike the premise, but i would have preferred if it was the same carer all of the time. nevertheless, i understand why they make it to be different carers each time most of the time since they have different clients that they need to attend to. i was lucky to get the carer that i had today four times. once last monday, once last thursday, once yesterday and once today.
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 great stuff. Glad to hear your excited. If your current carer said she's nice then she will 100% be.

    yeah
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