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ellie2000

Does noticing tht workers f,up mean tht I'm not happy? I am happy but as I notice the wrongens I make it known. Wat am I playing at? As they used to say in the other house I was in

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ellie2000

Wen I report stuff n the don't agree, I hear the team leader where i used to live in my head goin 'wat the he'll r u playing at!!' Shall I wait till ppl go? On Friday I vented how I was in a crisis and they replied 'I don't no how to help'

ellie2000

Others say I'm not happy. But I am in a way. Can someone explain. so I can say I am happy to ppl

ellie2000

I'm just not happy with the management

Katie

Hey @ellie2000 it sounds like you're a pretty observant person and I think it's good you're able to identify and point out when someone is doing something wrong, especially if it's to do with your care.

ellie2000 wrote: »

Wen I report stuff n the don't agree, I hear the team leader where i used to live in my head goin 'wat the he'll r u playing at!!' Shall I wait till ppl go? On Friday I vented how I was in a crisis and they replied 'I don't no how to help'

I hear how you felt like you was in crisis on Friday and the workers didn't know how to help. How are you feeling today Ellie? Can I also ask what you mean by feeling like you was in crisis if you feel comfortable sharing?

ellie2000 wrote: »

Others say I'm not happy. But I am in a way. Can someone explain. so I can say I am happy to ppl

It sounds like you might feel happy in general, but you're not happy with the management. Is that right? If you're not happy with management and how you're being cared for, it's okay to say so Ellie. It's so important your care needs are being met and you have the support you need from management.

Let us know how you're getting on today

ellie2000

@Katie I've gone to mums 4 a week 😀 with me being insulting in a cafe which the manager accused me of , I can't remember it or them making me feel at my lowest. Wats worse? Bc I told mum about wen I felt really really and wen I told them they didn't no about tht feeling. N I signal to staff I was feeling rough and the turn their backs. Sometimes I question myself, if I get a carer who vents their problems

Katie

How are you finding it at your mum's @ellie2000? How are her cats?

It's really good you tell your mum when things concern you Ellie. Hopefully talking to her helps relieve some of your worries. So did the staff not help you when you told them you were feeling rough? You deserve support and I hope being at your mum's for a week will help you feel supported

You're doing so well opening up to us here

ellie2000

@Katie

Cold weather

ellie2000

I'm not goin back there now. They said I done bad stuff which I haven't. Is tht professional behaviour? A tenant I knew had left. Bc they done the same to her.
The care atmosphere is a hard one to adapt to

Katie

@ellie2000 aww kitties they look so chilled out

ellie2000 wrote: »

I'm not goin back there now. They said I done bad stuff which I haven't. Is tht professional behaviour? A tenant I knew had left. Bc they done the same to her.
The care atmosphere is a hard one to adapt to

Are you staying at your mum's now then Ellie? It does sound like a really hard atmosphere to adapt to and I hear they're saying you've done bad things which you said you haven't done. This sounds quite isolating and frustrating - like your words against theirs. Keep talking to your mum and us Ellie - we're here to listen and support

I'll also pop a couple of organisations here you might feel like looking into. They can help with advocating for your care and getting your voice heard

The National Youth Advocacy service (NYAS) provide information, advice, advocacy, and legal representation to children and young people up to the age of 25, throughout England and Wales. They are open Monday to Friday from 9am-8pm and Saturday 10am-4pm . You can call them on 0808 808 1001 or email them at help@nyas.net. If you would like to speak with someone about a legal matter relating to an individual, you can contact their legal team on 0151 649 8700 or email legal@nyas.net. You can also go to www.nyas.net for more information.

POhWER provide information, advice, support and advocacy to people who experience disability, vulnerability, distress and social exclusion. All of their services are free, independent and confidential. They also have a set of advocates especially for children and young people, including if you are involved with a mental health unit or CAMHS.To speak to an advisor who can point you in the right direction, you can contact their help hub which is open Monday-Friday 8am-6pm, except bank holidays. Their phone number is 0300 456 2370 or you can send the word 'pohwer' with your name and number to 81025. You can also find the details for how you can email, skype, fax or post to get in touch with them. You can also head to their website which has an easy read and accessibility option at https://www.pohwer.net/

VoiceAbility is an independent charity providing a range of advocacy services. They are there for you regardless of situation, illness or disability. They can support you if are in hospital, if you are detained, if you are in prison, if you need to challenge a decision that has been made about you or if you need help staying safe. They have a helpline which you can contact them on 0300 303 1660, this is open Monday-Friday 9am-5pm, but they are closed bank holidays. Alternatively you can email them at helpline@voiceability.org or visit their website https://www.voiceability.org/