hate christmas - tw// mentions of self harm

shannonxg_

i hate christmas sm. i’m trying so hard to be happy and not ruin everything for everyone but it’s actually so so draining:(

my mum and sister are currently sat watching christmas movies together while i sit alone in my room crying about how much i hate everything in life struggling sm with self harm urges. i’m so stupid.

Faolan

You’re not stupid. This time of year is hard for a lot of people.

I don’t really know what I can say to make it better, or even if that’s possible but I just wanted yE to know that you’re not alone here. We care a lot .

You don’t have to pretend or force yourself to be happy if you’re not

Hugs 💚

Chloe234

Sending so many hugs @shannonxg_ Christmas can be such a hard time of year for so many people and i really do feel you on this. Im so sorry youre sat in your room alone, could you possibly go out and join them?

Im so sorry to hear that your sh urges are bad at the moment, is there anything you can do to try distract from them? Is there something that usually helps with these? Youre not alone shannon and we are here for you, youre not stupid at all either! Im always here if you need to message

shannonxg_

@Faolan thank you for taking the time to read and reply, i appreciate that a lot🫶🏻

shannonxg_

@Chloe234 thank you so much, i appreciate that! i wish i could’ve joined them but im just an issue to them:( im her for you too🩷

TheNightmare

You're not stupid at all. You aren't alone in not liking Christmas or even hating it. I'm here like you have been here for me replying to my threads and the rest of the community are here too.

shannonxg_

@TheNightmare thank you i appreciate that a lot, here for you if you need!!

TheNightmare

shannonxg_ wrote: »

@TheNightmare thank you i appreciate that a lot, here for you if you need!!

It's all good, I hope you cheered up a bit now, I'm not in the Christmas mood or anything atm either, I cba tbh. I appreciate you're here for me too.