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A failure at online dating

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
in Sex & Relationships
I’m so done with trying to find love online dating, I can never get any matches or no one messages me back and then unmatches me so I feel ugly and that no one likes me

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Keep being you<3 Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    Hey @Past User you are definitely not ugly your beautiful in your own way.
    I promise you if you wait you will find love it might take a long time but you will eventually find the one keep trying and don’t give up❤️
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
    Hey @Emoji246 i don’t feel beautiful one bit but thank you for saying so, regarding waiting it’s what I. Doing but in the mean time I just want people to talk to who don’t just leave after one conversation do you get what I mean ?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Keep being you<3 Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    @Past User yes I understand if you ever want to talk message me if you want ❤️
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
    @Emoji246 i did the other day but you didn’t answer me so I thought you didn’t want anything to do with me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Keep being you<3 Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    Oh @Past User im really sorry I didn’t mean it
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
    @Emoji246 everyone who says for me to message them never actually answer me anyway so that’s why I don’t message when people tell me to
  • Former MemberFormer Member Keep being you<3 Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    edited September 2024
    @Past User I really am sorry ❤️
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
    @Emoji246 so if you want to message me then by my guest and il reply but if not il let you get on with the rest of your day
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 123 The Mix Convert
    edited September 2024
    Hey @Past User !

    I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with online dating. It can be very difficult. I have also used it before.

    I just wanted to ask, which apps are you using? Only because people use different apps for different things. I have noticed that many people use Tinder for short-term relationships (like one night stands). I think Bumble, Hinge and OkCupid are better for making more serious connections with people.

    I hope this helps. Try not to let these experiences get to you. You deserve someone special so don't lower your standards :smile:
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 92 Budding Regular
    @Tee A im using bumble, tinder, hinge and okcupid which I was recommended to use by other people and seem to be the main ones to use
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