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should i contact the mix again or my teacher

AngelAngel Posts: 19 Fast Newbie
sometimes i feel sad and i want to talk to people especially whats been going on at my college with this girl, she makes me depressed and really struggle to reach out to people. I contacted the mix 6 times this week. people say I'm doing it because I'm asking for attention but it is not that its because I'm having issues and should tell my teacher. i noticed the mix record how many times i contacted them. the last time I contacted them they said i contacted them before and noticed they are counting how many times I have contacted them now. next time i feel sad should i tell my teacher or contact the mix again? cant deal with this anymore

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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 3,499 Ultimate Poster
    hey :) I think you should tell your teacher .. the mix are great but there's only so much they can do when they're not there in person, telling your teacher could help things improve but the mix will always be there as well :)<3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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  • Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Posts: 401 Rampant Poster
    Echo @BubblesGoesBoo

    I think it would be a good idea to tell your teacher, they may be able to help!

    Salix
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 8,168 Boards Champion
    edited May 3
    Yeah i agree with bubbles. 

    When you say you contracted the mix. What part of the mix? You can use this space as many times as you want. I think Their one to one is just like a help to see what support you have around. And not long term support (if that's where you mean) 
    I'm sorry to hear about whats been happening with you and this girl. Here If wanna talk more about it <3
    Stop imagining fake scenarios and hurting your own feelings 
  • JordanJordan Posts: 166 Super Moderator
    Hi @Angel hope you are doing well :)

    You can use this community forum as much as you want to ask questions, seek advice, or just chat :)  I'm not sure if you've contacted our other services like the helpline or one-to-one.

    It sounds like you are having issues with a girl at your college who is making you feel down. You ask whether yo should contact The Mix Again or your teacher. If you want to explore your options with your teacher you can definitely do that, they might be able to help explore your feelings and see if they can sort the issue out with this girl. 

    If you want to explore and talk about how you are feeling or maybe get some advice about your feelings or the options you have then you can reach out to The Mix community. You could also do both :)
  • MikeMike Unapologetic dork LondonPosts: 2,330 Staff Moderator
    edited May 5
    Angel said:
    I contacted the mix 6 times this week. [...] i noticed the mix record how many times i contacted them. the last time I contacted them they said i contacted them before and noticed they are counting how many times I have contacted them now. next time i feel sad should i tell my teacher or contact the mix again?
    Just chipping in briefly to say something about this. :)

    Our 1-2-1 helpline team keep a very basic record of when people get in touch. That's so they're in the best position to help you when you contact them, and so they can identify any troublemakers easily. You can also read more about that in our privacy policy if you want to clarify anything.

    If they mentioned how many times you got in touch @Angel, it's not because you've done anything wrong. You're still welcome to contact them and use The Mix Community when you want to. If that changes for any reason, someone should tell you that clearly and explain why. :)
    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.

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  • AngelAngel Posts: 19 Fast Newbie
    Hello guys
    i did have a not so good support chat, sorry if I've upset anyone I was feeling annoyed with loads of things going through my mind. if Shaunie has read this please private message me so we can be nice to each other.
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 8,168 Boards Champion
    edited May 26
    hey you didnt upset me. I didnt have a good support chat either but nothing that was your fault. Just mine x
    Stop imagining fake scenarios and hurting your own feelings 
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