help

ellie2000

how do u stop a person taking control of ur life

Lubna

Take control yourself. Cut all toxic people out, you are better than that💪

ellie2000

I cant wen i c him everyday

ellie2000

i need hugs sent

BubblesGoesBoo

Sending loads of hugs your way! 

ellie2000

i msgd him saying y I wasn't there nd my feelings, was tht right to do?

Spook98

It sounds like the right thing to do, as long as you act on it accordingly now and try to do what's best for you.

ellie2000

Is someone who blurts out insults bullying. When I'm unhappy with someone or they've avoided gtn the key chucked away. I just msg them go haywire n I msg them till it becomes out of hand. Wot do I do if he goes all unprofessional and rants  Nds shoutsinsults. N I can't ignore it bcoz his voice scares me n sticks in my head.
Feel free to msg me on steam xx

I don't feel like I have control

Spook98

I think maybe it's easy for me to give this advice because I've come to be very good at it, often times to my own detriment. But I feel as though cutting out bad things and bad people is entirely the best option. On that note, if at all possible you should do your best to avoid seeing the person who's scaring / hurting you, and dont strike up any conversations with them either.

Confronting someone about how they're treating you can definitely be nice for a little bit, but often times it'll only make things worse, so it's far easier to just move on if you can.  

Is it someone you have to see, someone you have to talk to? How is it he's taking control of your life? If we know more we might be able to help you better.

ellie2000

I hav 2. they get  a lot of money so I hav to and because the student room is also the office. the fat b-st--d is the first person I see. I think he has memory loss coz he denies it too. wen he calls me stuff n yells at me to get out the building I do n don't return 4 days, so I do music at home

Stephanie

Hey Ellie,

How are you feeling?

ellie2000

When I go to music I feel sh*t, so I m staying home as I did last week after holiday because I'm up n I don't wanna b put down again.  I'm happy

Han93

I'm really glad to hear that you're feeling happy at the moment

One of the questions you asked earlier is if what's happening is bullying so I thought it might be useful for me to pop some posts on here from The Mix about what bullying is and how to deal with it:
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/expert-chat-bullying-15348.html
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/bored-of-banter-when-banter-turns-to-bullying-31041.html
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/beat-bullying-6285.html

ellie2000

There's ppl tht r 'proffesional bullying me too

Shaunie

It sounds like youre doing all the right things. You said you was happy on tuesday. I hope you still are. .

ellie2000

I go up web I haven't seen some ppl for acouple of weeks, and I see them n they call me something, I crash and I can't get back up

boa

Hi Ellie,  

This sounds really difficult. How are you feeling today? 

ellie2000

Merry Christmas xxxx ♥️ I'm gd I'm listening to nightwish. Luv my family. I have duck l8r 😀

Shaunie

Hope you're okay today Ellie ? Hope you had a good Christmas 

ellie2000

I had wonderful Christmas thank you. Wen I was alone 4a nite I went panicky and haywire. I told someone who I didn't like wat I thought of them and I ask ppl wat do I do if...