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General and support chat thread (25/06/19)

Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loopDeactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
in General Chat
So hey guys! 

Chatwee is sadly down tonight, i get this may be upsetting for people(it is for me too, was looking forward to modding!) but no fear, i figured we could have a thread here for us to chat to each other if needed, support seeking is still allowed, but treat it like you would any ol thread, and respond like you would on the boards, all boards guidelines still apply, You can read them here if unsure :)


All boring stuff aside, how is everyone? been up to anything nice over the weekend? xo


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  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    edited September 18
    @Past User thank you so much for doing this. im not doing so good, and my weekend consisted of rehearsals, and breakdowns, yourself?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Miniposter Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    edited September 18
    Thank you for making this thread @Past User , sure it will help many people  <3


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    edited September 18
    Sorry to hear of the breakdowns @dancertori but rehearsals sound fun, hopefully not too stressful! 

    I mostly chilled, went to a fair and stayed in for rest, was a bit ill so stayed in bed watching Americas got talent haha :)

    No problem @Past User <3 hope you're doing well x
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  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    edited September 18
    @Past User well we have to fit over 100 people on a stage on the prom, so rehaersal was stresfull figuring out how to do it lol
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Miniposter Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    edited September 18
    @dancertori Sorry to hear about the breakdowns, but it sounds like the rehearsals were quite fun! 

    @Past User That sounds like an interesting and chilled weekend haha 
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Hey Laine, thank you for starting this thread.

    Just thought I'd pop in to say hey and ask how everyone is doing?

    :heart:
  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,908 Extreme Poster
    I’m so sad and feel like am dying and I’m lonely 
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Jellyelephant do you know whats made you feel like that?

    Hi @Stephanie im not doing too good, yourself?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    @Jellyelephant sending hugs, do you want to share more about what's happening? :heart: 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    @dancertori sorry to hear that. Feel free to chat about it more if you need too.

    I'm good thank you. :heart: 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    in need of some distractions tonight, any suggestions? <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    BubblesGoesBoo said:
    in need of some distractions tonight, any suggestions? <3
    Making playlists, doodling, sleeping, um.. baking 
  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,908 Extreme Poster
    Thanks I believe am dying but my doctor said am not and gave me medication to “calm me down” because she said I’m anxious and having panic attacks. 
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    @Stephanie I've been getting really bad flashbacks, and cant control them at all, and voices, that are stronger than i am telling me to do things i dont wanna do :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Jellyelephant said:
    Thanks I believe am dying but my doctor said am not and gave me medication to “calm me down” because she said I’m anxious and having panic attacks. 
    Ah sounds difficult. Is the medication helping you? 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Miniposter Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    Struggling a lot if im honest :(

    Sending my love to everyone struggling, I understand its really hard  <3
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    dancertori said:
    @Stephanie I've been getting really bad flashbacks, and cant control them at all, and voices, that are stronger than i am telling me to do things i dont wanna do :(
    Sounds difficult. Do you have a safety plan in place for when your struggling? Also do you have any distractions that help you 
  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    edited September 17
    @Jellyelephant, what has led you to believe you are dying? have they done tests?

    @Past User  is there anything you enjoy doing, drawing, reading, tv ect
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  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    edited September 18
    @Past User do you want to talk about it?

    @Stephanie i did used to have a safety plan, but like most of it isnt relevant anymore, and nothing really helps when im like this:(

    anyone know if Holby is on tonight, lastweek it threw my week off

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    edited September 17
    Sorry to hear that @Jellyelephant

    I think if you're doctor told you you're not then thats very positive! it could be because you're feeling anxious, it comes with a term called "impending doom" maybe try some breathing exercises or anything you like to keep you busy? anything to distract you?

    Talking of distractions, @Past User is there anything you enjoy? any movies or films you like? you could try a new show, listen to some music, get a nice bath, a good cup of tea or something? :) 
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Miniposter Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    @dancertori Hugs  <3

    Just struggling a lot, my thoughts arent good :(

    sorry dont want Holby City x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    @dancertori holby was on BBC one at 8pm til 9pm. It's on iplayer now though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Fruit loop Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    edited September 18
    Aw sorry to hear you're struggling @Past User is there anything in particular getting to you today? x
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Miniposter Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    edited September 18
    @Past User

    I had to do this list thing with someone at college, for CMHT to make sure that I mention everything that I need to in the assessment and that brought a lot of feelings up I think :( 
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  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    Hi. 😭
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    edited September 18
    @Past User if you dont want to talk about it here, you can PM me and we can talk in private.

    @stephanie i always watch it later that its on as i can never watch it at that time, but atleast its there
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    Hey you lovely folks. I'm gonna head off now as I'm quite tired. Do take care everyone. Sending hugs to everyone :heart:

    @Past User thank you again for starting this thread. :heart: 
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Thanks guys, saw in another thread about wreck this journal so digging mine out again and going to do that 😊
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    How has everyone been?
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    edited September 18
    Stephanie said:
    Hey you lovely folks. I'm gonna head off now as I'm quite tired. Do take care everyone. Sending hugs to everyone :heart:

    @Past User thank you again for starting this thread. :heart: 
    You deserve your sleep. Aren't you always tired though? 
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    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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