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As a carer, when do you move out?
So il'll try keep it short, but basically my friend wants me to move in with her in October, the only problem is it's 200 mile away! And as a carer when do you move out? like is a month too short to put in a support package for mam? I really want to go and its in a city I've always wanted to live in, and its affordable! But i'm also scared, scared for mam mainly, and finding a job down there, work here has been great for my mental health, they're so understanding and I know i'll never find a place like that again. I've seen something recently it's like a fitbit that can detect when a fit is going to happen and send out texts/calls to people. it'll be good for mam and put my mind at ease a bit, but it's expensive! And with Christmas coming up can I really afford to move so soon? Also I don't know if i'm ready to leave this place just yet, and they've just started the process for supported accommodation so am I ready to live independently just yet? So may questions and I just don't know what to do.
' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''