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Marriage
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So how do you guys feel about marriage?
I've discussed it with friends before and personally its not for me as I want to be a career woman and would feel like somebody else's property. If I did get married I'd be Ms [insert my last name here] instead of Mrs [insert his last name here]... But it doesn't apeal to me in general. A handfasting perhaps?
However a mate of mine who's 20 (I think) has already settled with is 19 year old girlfriend and marriage seems right for them (they're getting married next year and have a wonderful baby boy!)...
Is marriage an obligation in a relationship? Or is it simply a lifestyle choice?
Do you want to get maried? Are you married?
I've discussed it with friends before and personally its not for me as I want to be a career woman and would feel like somebody else's property. If I did get married I'd be Ms [insert my last name here] instead of Mrs [insert his last name here]... But it doesn't apeal to me in general. A handfasting perhaps?
However a mate of mine who's 20 (I think) has already settled with is 19 year old girlfriend and marriage seems right for them (they're getting married next year and have a wonderful baby boy!)...
Is marriage an obligation in a relationship? Or is it simply a lifestyle choice?
Do you want to get maried? Are you married?
Marriage 88 votes
I'm happly married actually
11%
10 votes
I'm engaged/want to get married one day
47%
42 votes
I'm co-habiting, but see no point in marriage
3%
3 votes
Hell no! I'd never get married!
6%
6 votes
I would get married/am married to the same sex
12%
11 votes
When I get married I'm keeping my own name!
7%
7 votes
Never thought about it really
10%
9 votes
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