wot should i do ????

Former Member

I don't know what to do a few days ago me and my boyfriend were in his bedroom and there was no one else in so, as you do, we got up to some foreplay before i knew it we were semi-naked i was on top of him and i felt his dick go up my minge (but not far) then he pulled away then we were humping 4 or 5 times but he thinks we shagged but i dont think we did because he only went inside me once and then i wasn't very far. When i got home my minge was hurting my boyfriend said it was because i lost my virginity but i didn't so i think it's because he fingered me really hard he said if i lost my virginity it would hurt for anything upto and over 2 weeks but the pain i had only lasted a day. He's shagged before so i thought he would have known if he had or hadn't done it properly.
What do i do if it happens again like that?
Did i really lose my virginity?
Does it really hurt for upto 2 weeks after your first time?
Why does he keep going on about it?