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Online Relationship complications - HELP!!
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I was in a very rocky relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. I needed to to tlak to a complete stranger so i got chatting on the internet. A lad in a chat room who was also in a relationship started chatting to me. This went on for a few months, then we started talking on the phone. Until finally we met. We were both unhappy in our relationship and i guess it was love at furst sight. I left my Boyfriend shortly after meeting this lad. And he left his partner. However she took this bad and tried to comit suicide. He then went back to her until she was stable again, then explained to her he wasn't happy and left. She seemed ok about this and let him go.
He lives 80 miles away from me. We see eachother once a week, or more if we can. However, he has children. THis does not bother me, but it means that when he sees them he stays at his ex's house, even though she now knows about me. He knows i don't like it but then says he doesn'y want to hurt her because of the suicide atempt. I therefore have to accept this. But i feel second best. I am supposed to be going on holiday with his sister and his kids. I have only met his kids once and they still see his ex as Daddy's girlfriend. And his sister doesn't like me much. How do i tell him how i feel. Please help.
He lives 80 miles away from me. We see eachother once a week, or more if we can. However, he has children. THis does not bother me, but it means that when he sees them he stays at his ex's house, even though she now knows about me. He knows i don't like it but then says he doesn'y want to hurt her because of the suicide atempt. I therefore have to accept this. But i feel second best. I am supposed to be going on holiday with his sister and his kids. I have only met his kids once and they still see his ex as Daddy's girlfriend. And his sister doesn't like me much. How do i tell him how i feel. Please help.
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when you go on holiday it will give you a chance to get to know his kids better, and his sister too. maybe ask your boyf to tell his kids when you go away together than you're "daddy's new girlfriend".. but not try to replace their mum in their minds with you, sorta thing. and youll get change to talk to his sister too and hopefully you'll get on better at the end as a result of this <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.