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I don't want her to go...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have met a really nice girl and we got on so well together. It was just like magic. But just before I was about to say something deeper, she told me that she is planning to leave this country and move to Australia. She said she loves it there and wants to get a job there. Oh at that moment my heart broke...... I didn't even have the chance to say i luv u.... now what should i do? should i still tell her about my feelings, even though i know there is no future between us? i have even thought about moving to australia with her, but then i dont want to leave behind all the things here, my job, my mates and stuff. do u think i should try to persuade her not to move? but then i know that is always her dream... Or should i just forgot about her?? <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

[ 17-03-2002: Message edited by: NiceK ]

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This one can be summed up nicely. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
    If it is meant to be then it will, but don't go to Australia just for her, 10,000 miles is a huge distance, especially if she isn't the one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    NiceK
    Is this a dream she has, or is she really planning to go? If she is sharing a dream then that's cool, if she is really planning to go, then thats cool too... as she has told you early in your relationship. Or maybe its just a rouse...
    Good luck
    skitt
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She is planning to go, quite seriously as she has been arranging the visa thing <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    It was before she knew me, so there might be a slight chance that she would stay for me but i really dont know... life is ironic, isn't it
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