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Approaching dream girl

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hey guys. Heres the problem: a girl I really fancy from my hall is going out to the same place I am tonight, but I have absolutely no idea how to approach her. I'm usually ok with women, but this girl just turns my head to mush, and it feels like I've had a head transplant with a labrador. Any ideas and suggestions would be much appreciated!

Cheers

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just have a few drinks and try to relax, I know what you mean- I make a fool of myself! Just chat to her normally, good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont let her know how much you like her, it may scare her off. Just talk to her, maybe flirt a little and try and find out if she likes you too. Its best to be good buds before you move in. Good luck. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah good advice above- cos if she lives in your hall, it could be embarrasssing if it all goes pear shaped.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But how do you get around the whole 'mates' thing? What I mean is, she always hangs around with at least 3 or 4 other girls, making it nigh on impossible to get near her!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cockney Bob:
    <STRONG>But how do you get around the whole 'mates' thing? What I mean is, she always hangs around with at least 3 or 4 other girls, making it nigh on impossible to get near her!</STRONG>

    Why don't you ask her if she would like a dance if it is a club, or offer to buy her a drink and get her to come with you?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fair do's. I spose I'm just gonna have to get some balls really, aren't I!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cockney Bob:
    <STRONG>Fair do's. I spose I'm just gonna have to get some balls really, aren't I!</STRONG>

    Yep
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The worst thing is that it's a school disco jobby, so I'm gonna be all over the place anyway!Alcohol is a terrible thing. And usually she's a grungy chick, so people don't really realise how gorgous she is - but everyone'll be after her tonight! Just hope i'm not too pissed!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cockney Bob:
    <STRONG>The worst thing is that it's a school disco jobby, so I'm gonna be all over the place anyway!Alcohol is a terrible thing. And usually she's a grungy chick, so people don't really realise how gorgous she is - but everyone'll be after her tonight! Just hope i'm not too pissed!</STRONG>

    Dont drink too much, you'll make a fool of yourself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I shall certainly try not to! Cheers for your help. Any more suggestions most welcome!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try not to? Are you that much of an alcoholic? Do you have so little will power when it comes to the subject of alcohol?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Easy tiger! I'm not usually that bad, but Im going on a sports team social (pub crawl) before hand! Should be fine though. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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