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Hi
Anybody out there who has a girlfriend that smokes and you dont,acouple of months ago i asked my gf to stop smoking around me and she dumped me,now im going out with someone else and what do u know she smokes aswell,i wanna tell her to stop around me but i dont wanna get dumped,all her mates are moaning at me cus i wont kiss or even walk next to her.i dunno what to do really
Anybody out there who has a girlfriend that smokes and you dont,acouple of months ago i asked my gf to stop smoking around me and she dumped me,now im going out with someone else and what do u know she smokes aswell,i wanna tell her to stop around me but i dont wanna get dumped,all her mates are moaning at me cus i wont kiss or even walk next to her.i dunno what to do really
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If you're like me, your gonna have to tell her to not do it around you. I'd have probably screened out smokers first, though
[ 04-03-2002: Message edited by: The Pendari Champion ]
If you like her enough, you'll be able to put up with her 'vices', but if it really does bother you, maybe she will try and stop for you, or at least not do it while you're around, which seems a fair compromise.
If you ask her to stop then its a (unfair?)test of her love for you (as you know she smoked before you got togtheer)
If you leave it as it is then is a test of your love for her.
I pretty much rule out any girl who smokes personally.
i dont smoke anymore and my new boyfriend smokes casually and he doesn't smoke around me because he knows i don't like it.
if shes a regular smoker then it'll be alot more difficult for her to stop and if she refuses to stop you'll have to consider if you like her enough to stay with her.
Use the whole "I'm worried about your health" thing like thefairmelissa suggested. If she doesn't fall for that one you'll have to shove a load of tic-tacs in her mouth and spray odious amounts of body spray over her before any form of bodily contact.