My new partner

Former Member

hi everyone

i havent been on here for a while now but i have a small problem so i would be very greatful if you could offer any help or advise!

the thing is, i used to see someone and now i have a different partner, and i used to be in love with the previous partner, but now when i am doing stuff with my new partner it just doesnt seem to work, and if i am masturbating alone at home, thinkin of my new found love doesnt seem to work, yet the person i used to see, well, i tend to end up thinking of them!

im really confused by this and i am a bit worried, can anyone help me?

thanks

Former Member

You are a bad bad girl and deserve a right good buggering.

I hope that helps.

Former Member

You're not over your previous boyfriend and, in all honesty, I don't think you should be with this new guy. If you still have strong feelings for your ex which are preventing you from enjoying sex or other parts of your current relationship, I think you should think about whether or not you're ready for a relationship now.

Former Member

Re: My new partner

Originally posted by ilovehimso
hi everyone

i havent been on here for a while now but i have a small problem so i would be very greatful if you could offer any help or advise!

the thing is, i used to see someone and now i have a different partner, and i used to be in love with the previous partner, but now when i am doing stuff with my new partner it just doesnt seem to work, and if i am masturbating alone at home, thinkin of my new found love doesnt seem to work, yet the person i used to see, well, i tend to end up thinking of them!

im really confused by this and i am a bit worried, can anyone help me?

thanks

Obviously it will be hard to forget someone who you were in love with. give it time and you will get over them

Former Member

Re: Re: My new partner

Originally posted by icey
Obviously it will be hard to forget someone who you were in love with. give it time and you will get over them

... but maybe it's fair not to go out with this other guy in the meantime?

Former Member

Originally posted by Sir Cum
You are a bad bad girl and deserve a right good buggering.

I hope that helps.

It's a guy

Former Member

Originally posted by HunnyPot
It's a guy

Well the buggering part still holds true assuming its a gay guy? Ho Ho Ho

Former Member

thanks guys!

the thing is, its been about 2 months since i was with my last partner and i dont feel the same for them now! and i know that for sure and i dont *think* i would take them back - well i no i wouldnt cos i have sum1 else, but i meant if i was single,and this new person... i really like them and im comfortable doing stuff to them, i dunno, maybe its just cos ive only done something with them once and i was nervous?!!?

but i really do like this person and i dont want to tell them its over, cos i would really regret that!

any more views?

really appreciate it thanks again!!!

Former Member

How about just continue going out with the guy you're with now and enjoy yourself. its natural to still have feelings for a past partner but you don't need to dwell on these. just live life and see what happens!