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men having their arses fucked
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what is it with blokes?
why do they expect their women to take it up the ass for them... and yet they wouldnt have it done to themselves?
Not on personal experience here... because me and my partners relationship is fine and not up for discussion (!), but i was talking to a male friend and he said he would want to shag his girlfriend up the ass (sorry for the crudeness) yet he wouldnt let her go near his ass with a barge pole.
Slightly hypocritical dont you think?
why do they expect their women to take it up the ass for them... and yet they wouldnt have it done to themselves?
Not on personal experience here... because me and my partners relationship is fine and not up for discussion (!), but i was talking to a male friend and he said he would want to shag his girlfriend up the ass (sorry for the crudeness) yet he wouldnt let her go near his ass with a barge pole.
Slightly hypocritical dont you think?
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Especially as it's supposed to be more pleasurable for men than it is for women :rolleyes:
homosexual relationships have a bitch and a butch, with the more masculine doing the fucking and the 'work' if you know what i mean. obviously in straight relationships the guy is the masculine one
well i dunno a barge pole is pretty big :P
No - you're wrong. The whole butch/bitch role thing is a fallacy. Most gay men are versatile i.e. they do both. Yes, you do get some that are soley either active or passive but the majority of gay men that engage in anal activity are versatile.
Mind you, they do seem to have some obsession with doing the fucking.. if my mates ever see a sexy woman the phrase 'she'd get it up the arse' always, always gets said by somebody... :rolleyes:
men do the pokin while women receive the pokin. so i guess it would feel more normal for a women than a bloke to be poked. so maybe its even more unatural for a bloke than a lady.
anyone get what i mean???
never thought of it that way before
:yes:
But its more the kinda dirty filthy feeling of fucking someone up the ass- think of it that way, fucking something new. No matter what way you put you can make love to her up the pussy but when it comes to the ass its plain and simplky fucking her up the ass!
I agree with you, but surely performing anal sex on someone (ie the woman) is still classed as a homosexual act? The man is still doing what a lot of gay men do. One of the gay men is going to have to give it, one is going to have to take it... so either way... whatever anal activity the straight man is performing with his female partner - it is still a homosexual act.
I agree. I think its hypocritical of a guy to go 'oh no thats gross' when a girl suggests doing it to him... yet its not gross when the guy does it to the girl??? Because at the end of the day... just because we have one hole already, it doesnt mean all of them are for poking. My ass has the same purpose as a blokes ass... whether I have a vagina or a dick... my ass if for shitting... and so is yours (whether you have a dick or a vagina).
Now if you can work out how a girl can give a guy bumsex in a mongamous relationship then Id be interested to hear it. Dildos, no matter how the girl uses them, do not count.
I totally agree with this, and I have had a girlfriend with a similar view. So I assumed the position once, and that was all it took. Now, I'm bi, but back then I was straight, and it wasn't a problem.
Come on guys! If enough of you start being a little fairer, who knows what kind of sexual revolution you could start!
I think you're being too simplistic. Does that mean you shouldn't give head to a girl 'cos your mouth is for eating? This is the 21st century .... not Victorian England. If it gives you and your partner pleasure, who fucking cares what the orifice is for????
:yes: **round of applause** :yes:
Ye agree here- but as I was saying most of the men here prob aint have even let a girl play with their ass never mind rimming or anything penetrative, but you have to open minded especially if its your gf that wants to do it,
So to answer your Q yes I would try it- if I didnt like it I'd just stop it-
But the main thing is the women would be fucking us with something alien to their bodypart- which is most people argument
:wave: I would. Is that an offer? *bends over for badabing*
I've been rubbed and fingered a few times, and it was lovely! :hyper: Now, if only I could find a girlfriend willing to do me properly with a strap-on. Or better still, so she could get something from it, a double ended strap-on.
Not that I've thought about it that much, honest. :angel:
Mr_Wobble
:eek2: Never do that again. Really. Why the fuck do people star out swear words? It's not like people can't tell what the fucking word is so what the fuck is the fucking point??
I disagree. It's all down to preference. If someone I was with didn't like say... I dunno, going down on people I wouldn't suddenly stop giving them blow jobs for the simple reason that they don't like it and don't want to do it so why should I.
I don't think it's very fair to say 'No, I won't do that' all because someone doesn't like the idea of having the act they want to do to you done to them. Just because someone likes giving doesn't mean they'd like receiving it, and vice versa
I guess it all depends on certain factors though. Like, if a guy really hated it and I hated it too but he merrily would whinge at me to do it then I wouldn't be too impressed.
I'd say a homosexual act was an act between two members of the same sex.
Simply liking being anally stimulated (in my view anyhow) doesn't make someone gay simply because some gay men like it up there.
You put it so nicely Kat.