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Sex starvation...
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Me and my g/f been together about 8 months!
She's hardly EVER in the mood for sex!
I'm ALWAYS up for it, but she hardly ever is!
She says she can't be bothered!
I said to her u make me feel like theirs something wrong with me, and she replied their isn't, i just can't be bothered..... we been together for ages so the novelty of doing it all the time has gone...well something like that..
is this normal for such a relationship????
I just aint getting it enough! We're both in love..
admitedly i am a MAJOR nympho! I can't get enuff!!
Me and my g/f been together about 8 months!
She's hardly EVER in the mood for sex!
I'm ALWAYS up for it, but she hardly ever is!
She says she can't be bothered!
I said to her u make me feel like theirs something wrong with me, and she replied their isn't, i just can't be bothered..... we been together for ages so the novelty of doing it all the time has gone...well something like that..
is this normal for such a relationship????
I just aint getting it enough! We're both in love..
admitedly i am a MAJOR nympho! I can't get enuff!!
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sorry, i wasnt much help.
I go down on her alllllllll the time as I love it!
And it may result in sex, but she has got really lazy about it and doesn't want it alll the time like me!
I try everything to convince her, but she just won't!
Think if I stop hassling her and not give her sex when she wants it. May work out for the best!
then we spent 5 months apart when we both went to study in different countries and that nealry killed me. but when we got back together again, he had suddenly turned into the sexiest man alive in my eyes, and now i can't get enough either. in fact, it has been known for him to turn me down :eek:
so, um, absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder!!
And when you start again, make it different - don't have sex all the time, vary what you do, always keep thinking of ways to make it more exciting... and it'll be great again
thanks!
Bit scared of what ya said KoolKat...
Hopin she isn't having negative thoughts about us....
We see each other alot, not always having sex, like going out for a meal or watching t.v..... That will prob always happen, i hpope thats not harming anything...
going cinema tonight... she agrees to meet, so can't be bad...can it?