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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i like this girl n she likes me i spent the whole day @ her house doing stuff n then when we was walkin back to my house i asked her out n she said we just 'see' eachother...sum1 tell me whats the difference between g/f b/f and seeing eachother? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmmm, difficult one. I can't give you a definitive answer but it sounds to me like she wants a relationship that is only physical. So no romance or commitment. What you must do is ask yourself if that is what you wants, because it could be that she just wants to use you for sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm.....
    I think she means that she just wants a casual relationship, rather than a commited loving relationship.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and probably non-excusive. But that's my definition. You should just ask her
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not too sure what "seeing" someone means, but i have been told that: she wants to "see" you, but be able to date other people too.
    (I think !!)
    TheShyGirlBeth xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyGirlBeth:
    <STRONG>I'm not too sure what "seeing" someone means, but i have been told that: she wants to "see" you, but be able to date other people too.
    (I think !!)
    TheShyGirlBeth xxx</STRONG>

    It's a sad excuse.
    What it means is that for now you and her are together, but if she finds someone else there aren't any ties holding her back. It also means there aren't any ties holding you back, but WOAH betide YOU do anything, as soon as you do she'll say how much she loved you and how you have ruined her life ect ect.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, be careful man.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    seeing means that this girl wants to be with you but also wants to go off wiv other lads! If u can handle her goin off wiv other lads then go for it, but if u cant its not worth it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~*chippalata*~:
    <STRONG>seeing means that this girl wants to be with you but also wants to go off wiv other lads! If u can handle her goin off wiv other lads then go for it, but if u cant its not worth it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    Did i not just say that! Is my reply not good enough for any of you then!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my mates is currently 'seeing' this guy and hoping to go out with someone else at the same time. I personally think it is quite mean because I dont think he really knows what is going on. So definately WATCH OUT!
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