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Kat
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Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
wants her baby back
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I hope it's not as serious as it sounds...
She had an abortion you fool!
Badabing you'll never get it back now, but at least you've learnt something, you know how much pain it caused and you'll have a better idea of what to do if something like that happens again.
Have you been able to talk about it with friends? Talking helps the pain go away.
Kat, these feelings will pass, just absorb yourself with your daughter, I remember feeling incredibly broody after I had my abortion, its completely natural. The way I coped with it was to get myself a pet - it sounds silly but i just really needed something to care for, and that really really helped. Obviously you cant turn back time, you did what was right for you and your family at the time, youve got all the time in the world, just concentrate on the one youve already got, and that will heal you. You know im here whenever you need to talk.
And I am sure you being sarcastic and insulting me YET AGAIN will.
Sorry Hunnypot, but that did come across a tad insensitive.
Okay, sorry Kat. I didn't realise.
Just remember you made the best decision for you and everybody else at that time. You aren't a bad person for what you did, it takes guts to actually go through and make that decision you made.
There is light at the end of the tunnel........ honestly
I tried the pet thing, got two in fact, but it doesnt seem to be helping. I dont know its all shit.
And when i went they said my period would be back in four weeks time, which was 5 and a bit weeks ago, so i dont think thats helping. Im a tad concerned as i dont feel like im gonna come on either, which is slightly worrying - usually i can tell - but i'll give it a while before i start to worry i think.
I feel like a right hypocrit sometimes... all this 'no regrets' shit i always go on about. Shame i cant practice what i preach really isnt it?
Im trying to give it time, but i cant help regretting it. I found out some stuff about benefits the other week too... that i would have got more i was told i would have got... so we would have been able to manage. But its too late now so i cant do anything about it.
Anyway, thanks for all your comments i do appreciate them. I'll bump this up when i need to rant again, but right now im just trying not to think about things.
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