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is it true??
BillieTheBot
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is it true that guys prefer girls with a lot of confidence?? only, i've been bullied all my life and only recently have guys started paying me attention...but i'm very self concious and can't help but put myself down all the time...
apparently guys find this a turn off...is it true??
please reply and let me know and also give me ideas of how to be more confident and chatty!! xXx
apparently guys find this a turn off...is it true??
please reply and let me know and also give me ideas of how to be more confident and chatty!! xXx
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However, I also don't think I'm pretty and my confidence and self esteem are both very low. So everytime my boyfriend tells me I'm hott/pretty/etc, and I deny it, he gets really annoyed by it.
i don't think anything of myself...i'm not quiet around mates and quite chatty around guys who seem to like me...but those who are hard to get to know, i become shy around... if ya get me?
i'm so loud and flirty when drunk though!! you know, touching guys etc lol! how can i become confident dammit?? xXx
Well what all do you not like about yourself?
The sources of what all is making you so not-confident...
Looks-wise, personality-wise... What all don't you like?
general stuff that guys go for!!
and guys always say, 'you gotta be confident, stop putting youself down etc, it's a turnoff!' xXx
to be honest i always get the impression people who are loud as being kind of insecure and looking for attention which is different to being confident. i think confidence is all about how one 'carries' themselves and uses eye contact. someone who walks with their head up, shoulders straight and with a nonchalent but sexy gaze will always attract attention. only thing is they are harder to approach. a friend of mine always says you have to be a confident prick and pretend you dont give a shit and he scores regularly buts its not a good way to look for relationships.