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Why are girls ashamed?
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Of a lot of things like masterbation, whereas guys are not. The amount of times girls say "no, i've never" makes me laugh. I mean, it is possible but incredibly unlikely. But I beleive them anyway. But I wondered why girls are very ashamed of things like that. I mean, it's not that you would tell everybody it's just that, there's nothing wrong with it girls seem to think. 
Bah. It's werid. Why do girls get ashamed of a lot of things more easily than guys?
Bah. It's werid. Why do girls get ashamed of a lot of things more easily than guys? 0
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of course its other women who call them slags when they are easier than themselves - so its other women's fault for girls being less easy
curse u other women
its a known fact that girls have "touched" theirselves, but y wont they let on, its a part of nature as jacaranda said.
So, it's the guys fault, if you lot weren't so fucking immature about shit like this, maybe they'd actually say.
What the? No. Maybe when you're really young. But guys I know were only ever twats about the whole touching yourself shit when we were younger.
As we got older it's like, no one cares.
That's how it was with my friends anyway.
And we all merrily talk about sex anyway.
Tis funny, cause I'm so good at shocking people! I will and do openly talk about masturbation at the most inappropriate times
I like to be open about my sexuality to all my friends, male and female, because you never know when any of them could become more than a friend. I find that it helps me get a grounding in a relationship when they already know my boundaries and aren't jumping in head first, so to speak.
I'm always open about stuff like this which I think is a good thing
Ive talked about it quite openly with some of my female friends, and some do it regularly and always have, and some dont do it at all. I didnt even try it till i was 16, it didnt occur to me that I could! I thought only boys could wank, and for girls I thought it would mean fingering themselves, which didnt do much for me. It took till i had actually had sex a few times for me to know what sort of thing i liked and to have some idea of the fun i could have! I think LOADS of girls dont do it, and they really should.
All you male mates quite mature then?
Was I talking about my mates? No.
Kids are like that though.
I was like that at that age (I've not changed much really)
When I was at school I wasnt ever asked that, but people used to ask whether people were virgins etc.
What I dont get is in the original post, it was implying that hed asked girls and theyd denied it, but he didnt believe them! If he is assuming that all girls masturbate, then why ask???
*I Think once I reached 15, I was telling the truth to girls*
But whenever I asked them if they fingered themselves, they'd look at each other and quickly say no!
I believe the reason for asking is learning about the other sex. I had seen a lot of pornos by the time I was 14 and just thought most birds touched themselves like that!
Nah not too deep although would make a new thread!
:yes: :yes: :yes: Sooo cannot agree enough! You've got it spot on. Though i have to say, amongst my mates, when they asked when i was a lil younger, i didnt deny that i do it. I dont see the point. They only took the piss outta the girls that said "I've NEVER done that in my LIFE!" cause it just makes them think "hmm.... BUUUUULLSHIIIIIIIT!"
That just makes it worse for them. Its annoying though because its not always something girls wanna talk about with blokes. I try to be open about such things, but sometimes you just think "ah shuddup" lol
Hmm.... i'm rambling
Yes, I understand fully, and sadly porn duped me into believing some unrealistic things about girls and sex. Luckily now, with age and little worldly experience with the fairer sex, I've managed to sort out the harm porn did to my little fragile mind!:p
I think this does really need to be made into a new thread, but to answer your question about porn given me unrealistic expectations about sex, I have to say yes! Big time. But as I've said, I have corrected them now
woohoo agreeing!!!...
im not one of those people, im pretty open, but the girls i know who dont admit it to blokes its for that reason~amongst other girls,were pretty open!