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Memory Wank Banks
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I know most blokes do, but what i'm wondering is if girls have a memory wank bank. What I mean by that is when you masturbate, do you masturbate over porno films, porno pictures, fantasies, or whether you remember past sexual experiences and imagine you are back there whilst masturbating - that is my weapon of choice when it comes to wanking as I feel it turns me on more knowing it has actually happened, what do you girls think about / look at when you are wanking, and also guys??
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just kidding!
Im one for the fantasies... used to be porn, but im bored of it all now :rolleyes:
30 seconds?? .. barely worth getting your kit off for that!!
I use my imagination/fantasies or erotica
A quicky here and there then
ya just do it again dont ya...themore times I do it the stronger sensation i get
... if i leave now I can be there just as you get off work!!! ....................... Nahhh feeling lazy today!!
fantasising's good too but in bed i'm usually too tired to make stuff up!
and past experiences is a good one, but more than a couple of times and it just seems too samey... i guess i may just get bored easily?
Woudl you ever tell a steady partner how you do it, so he could; or would it remain a personal secret?
Oh tell him!!! I told my ex...we did it together...cos even though he knows its still entirely different and feels different when im on my own....its just 2 amazing ways of having really good fun! would you tell a long time partner how you do it?
Heh, that made me laugh. Too tired to use ya imagination? It's not difficult. Maybe I just have an overactive one. Ah, tis handy.
Or am I just totally confused about what you meant?
And it depends. Why is it that all my answers in here are 'Depends'?
but its still good to think of the good times agreed!!:eek2:
but the imagination helps also.
*thinks to self about angelina jolie*thats the shit dont stop, keep going lara.
my point exactly well done !!
i can not improve on my point, basly porn is good and it is needed, oh yes it is needed.
Is this common?
Becks xx
*Is thinking how you'd bring that up in a conversation*
Obviously you were shocked, but was it good or bad? I guess bad.
Maybe I should have mentioned that we were both pretty wasted at the time, but it was still quite a bolt from the blue!
At the time I was shocked, looking back...I'm still shocked. I suppose it's flattering in a way, but I'm always going to be very conscious of how I act around him now.
Becks xx
Back to the original question (even though it was aimed at girls)...
I use a bit of porn, some erotica, imagination, past experiences, and fantasize about what I'd like to have done with ex'es.
Oh, and probably most disturbing to you lot, imagining some of the things I'd like to do with some of you!
Mr_Wobble
Yes, that is very disturbing, seeing asthough we both appear to be male, but hey, i'm up for anything new!
And yes, we do jerk off whilst thinking about female friends, especially the quiet ones, you know they are always the dirty ones!