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What do you do to keep yourself occupied?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
When you can't stop thinking about things? It's so annoying. Whether it's after a relationship that has broken up and you keep wondering what you could have done or if you've just had a first date and can't stop thinking about them and are you *really* seeing them? :eek:

Nowadays I have my feet on the ground but it used to be SO different. I remember when I couldn't do anything ebcause I would just think, and think. Now i still do sometimes, but it's more of an occasional thing :)

So how do you, stop thinking?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    masterbate
    eat
    sleep
    drink
    drugs
    pub
    phone friends
    go out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i fucking break things. i feel like breaking something now actually, i'm in one of those moods:mad:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think of my girl 24/7. Been seeing her every single day for over 2 months, and whenever i'm not with her - i think of her! Just can't get her out of my head. I'm soooooo in love.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i sleep!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Char_Baby
    i sleep!!

    hehe aye me too! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
    hehe aye me too! :D

    u shud join me sometime!!
    as long as you make me a hot choccie and dont hog the covers ;)
    xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't help but think about stuff....

    It's a curse.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Xila
    I can't help but think about stuff....

    It's a curse.


    i know man, i jus wish i was thick as fuck sometimes (no cheap funny quips please)

    but i've now realised to just go skating, but when you go to bed thats when its at its worse...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by molo
    but when you go to bed thats when its at its worse...

    I hate lying in bed, staring at the ceiling and THINKING TOO MUCH!! I didn't get to sleep for hours last nihgt because i'd been talking to a friend all night and i'm about as much in love with her as i'll ever be in love with anyone.

    To stop thinking intensely I go jogging and the whole time i'm running I just do maths sums in my head over and over, basically about how long I have to wait for certain events to happen, it's pretty weird!

    Also getting absolutely smashed helps me sleep and stop thinking but it's not quite as constructive as jogging...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    drugs, drugs, alcohol.....and maybe some drugs
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    After a relationship ends, After a week or two I turn off the soppy alicia keys and christina aguilera...

    Turn on the drum&bass, get my mates over and get rat-arsed, absolutely wankered and jump into bed with a girl friend :D Then spend every weekend raving/clubing until i dont have enough time for a boyfriend anymore. Been my post - break up ritual for years. Always works.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We all think 'too much' but you just can't let it worry you. I over-analyse everything and I annoy myself doing that sometimes, but you can't stop it, so why try?

    Having brain power is a wonderful thing and you're lucky to have it so put it to good use!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I clean :)

    You can always tell when I've got a lot on my mind cos my room is spotless
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i eat, sleep and drink............. its like an endless cycle
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i hurt myself and play my guitar. Also i write music and lyrics
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always wonder If i die, would God let me return like "Leo" from "Charmed" but without all the witches and stuff. So a living Guradian Angel. I'd like that :)

    So if you're listening big guy (or reading) come to me in a dream yeah ;)
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