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Would you say that having cybersex is clasified as cheating on your partner??
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Nah. *As he caresses Slinkys nipple*
Anyhoo boyf found out and went mad. He seems to think that its cheating.
mind you, if youre out 'cybering' with every person on the net its not exactly a thing a nice sweet loving bf/gf would do in my opinion.. hehe
personally, ive never got the whole cyber thing-ive not done it with random people online, except i did have a bit of fun with cyber once with my fella.. was a bit of a giggle
but cyber just makes me all
Not sure if I would class it as cheating. Your not *actually* doing anything. I suppose it could be looked on as severe flirting.
well that was my defence
ooooooh gossip... how did he find out?!
would you classify it as cheating slinky?
he 'accidently' opened my emails....and just went nuts basically
tsk he shouldn't be opening my stuff anyhoo
It's illegal to open someone elses mail. Serves him right for snooping
i hope u went bloody nuts at him for 'accidently' opening ur email!
ohhhhh yes
That is what i am trying to figure out.
Here 's the truth, i have been doing this with a mate, and it started out as a laugh, and just got more and more intence. We havn't done anything in reality. And when we see each other it is like nothing has ever happened and we are fine.
I don't feel like i have been cheating, and i am trying to imagine how my b/f would feel if he ever found out. So i have even tried putting my self in his shoes, and tried to imagine how it would feel if he was having Cyber with some one and I realised that i would be jealous, but it is just words , right??
I think if its something you have to hide from your partner (other than a surprise) then cheating or not, its not exactly right is it?
Candy, would you have liked it if you'd have discovered your fella had been telling girls how hard his cock was and how much he wanted to bend them over and slide his throbbing penis into their wet pussy?
To be honest, I wouldn't have been that bothered. I know no-one will believe me, but its true. I have a cold heart.
Top girl.
why thankya
I just don't believe in trying to control the actions of people who I am with. He can do whatever he pleases! (as long as I can too...)
slinky hunni... yeah its just words, but u know what they say about words hurting and all that...
i think id be more than jealous (but im me and take everything far to seriously!!!)
its not cheating, and i dont think youre doing anything wrong, but if he found out hed be devastated..
if he found out how would u feel babes? would u think 'shit i shouldnt have been doing that' or if he was upset would u think he was over-reacting?
I too don't exactly think it is cheating but I would be really pissed of if I found a partner of mine was telling someone her pussy was all wet and all the drips needed licking up like a thirsty dog lapping at its bowl of water.
I can't see how anyone would be happy about a partner doing things like this
I wouldn't be overjoyed, but I wouldn't make an issue of it. Its a laugh, that's all.
How would you know that your partner wasn't getting there self off by what some bloke (in my case) was saying to her. She could be there with her hands down her pants and playing with the pink oboe because this guy told her he was just about to let his load rip into her dripping fanny? This I then see as her masturbating (in theory) over someone else.
You telling me it doesn't get you hot?
If he found out, i would feel bad. That is why i sometimes wish that he would do it just so that i could catch him and say "Don't worry baby, i have been doing the same thing."
But i know that he would never, he doesn't have it in him to cheat, not even in Cyber!
Thanks lil , you are a hun, thanks for the advice and just listening to me!!
no problemo hunni, i duno, i think that if youd feel bad if he found out then maybe u shud quit the cyber?
its just words but if he did find out u said hed be hurt and so would you, better to be safe i guess...
but thats just my opinion!
I think that you are right, and maybe i should. But it is too easy, we have stoped with using text's and are just using email. Cheaper, and my b/f never goes on my pc - with it being a work lap top n all. So we will see!!
But thanks again sugar!
ah well in that case (as long as he wouldnt find out like candy's) then what he dont know wont hurt him right
Glad I've learnt not to trust girls
actually...if he told me in detail about what he's just done it probably would
i really like my blokeys to tell me about things they have done with other girls....gets me a bit jealous and very horny....
is that a bit strange?
Yeah, I agree.