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Saturday's Experience

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been contemplating posting this since monday morning when i got into work, and after much thought, i need some input.

On saturday night, i was quite pissed and out with a good mate of mine. Harriet (for those who dont know, my fiancee) was babysitting, and i wasnt expecting to see her. Anyways, we were just about to head of to our local club (open till 5am :D) when my mobile went off, harriet was finished and was coming out with the cash she just got. Anyways, she has had a thing about shagging me in this club since we started seeing each other a year ago, and in my tipsy state, just as i was returning from my visit to the porcelain goddess, she grabbed me and dragged me into one of the ladies cubicles. There were women in there the whole time, and she wasnt exactly being quiet, at one point someone knocked and looked over the top of the cubicle asking if she was alright, and saw us both going at it.. Anyways, for the rest of the night, i had points and stares from nearly everyone in the club, and the fact is, i didnt care. i have been weary of doing this for a year, and now its done, i would do it again, i found being watched such a fucking turn on....

so, anyone else had this kind of experience???? how do you feel about being watched? would you shag ur partner with complete strangers watching you??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dogging

    I assume the toilet door was closed?

    That's nothing I just found out 3 days ago about something people get upto called "Dogging"

    It's when couples drive to public car parks and invite other men to watch them shag in their car, sometimes they even invite the man into the car to join in.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When my naughty mind wanders I always think of things like being watched by strangers....I love thinking about it but I dont know if I could be watched:confused: maybe if i were tipsy and it was of the cuff...who knows?
    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    I assume the toilet door was closed?

    That's nothing I just found out 3 days ago about something people get upto called "Dogging"

    It's when couples drive to public car parks and invite other men to watch them shag in their car, sometimes they even invite the man into the car to join in.


    You been reading last months FHM i take it?? they had a whole section to wierd perversions, 100 of them in fact, some 95 real and 5 fake, you had to find the fake ones. Seagulling (demonstrated in Silence of the Lambs) involves throwing your recently collected man juice at a passer by... unfortunately, that one was fake :( Do'h
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    That's nothing I just found out 3 days ago about something people get upto called "Dogging"

    It's when couples drive to public car parks and invite other men to watch them shag in their car, sometimes they even invite the man into the car to join in.
    My best friend and her man are into that, I cant quite see the attraction myself :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by Glittery Vodka
    My best friend and her man are into that, I cant quite see the attraction myself :no:

    ditto to that!!

    I hate even watching it on tv and stuff, i could not imagine being watched.

    Being heard is another story, especially when you know that someone is listening, and you kinda fancy them, and you know that they are enjoying listening!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Saturday's Experience
    Originally posted by Eul Grepus
    how do you feel about being watched? would you shag ur partner with complete strangers watching you??

    :yes:

    fun fun fun..... see im really shy normally but that can be a giggle....

    first time i shagged (use the term loosly cus i dont like to call girl-girl shagging) anyway, first time i was with a girl was in front of strangers.. and was surprisingly fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    I assume the toilet door was closed?

    That's nothing I just found out 3 days ago about something people get upto called "Dogging"

    It's when couples drive to public car parks and invite other men to watch them shag in their car, sometimes they even invite the man into the car to join in.

    *knows where they do that in Bristol*

    Ive seen that happen.

    :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    *knows where they do that in Bristol*

    Ive seen that happen.........

    You loved it:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can see how people watching would be a turn on... im not sure if id like to have sex with people knowing i know they are there, if you know what i mean?! id rather have sex knowing there is a possibility of people seeing and knowing if they can see but them not knowing that i know theyre watching... does that make sense?!:confused::)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by Harmless
    You loved it:p

    Nay.

    The men get quite violent. If you go there as a couple to do um stuff or just go there when its dark for any reason (but not a part of this dogging stuff) there are men walking about and they assume your doing that. They try to break into cars when your in it. Well scary!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    The men get quite violent. If you go there as a couple to do um stuff or just go there when its dark for any reason (but not a part of this dogging stuff) there are men walking about and they assume your doing that. They try to break into cars when your in it. Well scary!
    Thats why I worry about my friend doing it, all that lurking in the bushes stuff is a bit dodgy :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dear god no, everybody would see my fat ass!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Dogging
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    *knows where they do that in Bristol*

    Ive seen that happen.

    :no:

    Really? Where? I don't live in Bristol any more & am not interested, just wondered where!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ive been watched a couple of times in the past. When I was younger a copper watched me and my then gf shagging in the car for a while before he bothered to knock on the window. I didnt know we were being watched at the time but it was a nice though afterwards :naughty:

    Then once when I was married we had some friends round and we ended up putting aporno video on. (Iwas the only sober one at the time cos I was driving) I`ll admit I was trying to get some swapping going on, and although my mates misses was up for it he wasnt, so we just ended up shagging our own partners in the same room.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In uni halls me and g/f shag with curtains open light on anytime day or night. people must be able to see in and you can turn that into a bit of dirty talk and you have sum very good sex!:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to love fucking in public. One of my most embarassing memories is from when I was 17: Me and my bf of the time were fucking in the grounds of notts castle and I looked up and there was a whole croud of torists watching not 30ft away:lol: looking back it is extreamly funny! My favourite experience in public was in a club called 'The Future' in Derby and I was getting pretty intamate with this girl in the toilets when another girl walked in on us and asked us if she could bring her boyfriend in to watch. I still think about that:yum:
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