Does anyone in here sometimes feel a bit desperate?

Former Member

This is kind of a wierd question maybe, but I was just wondering.

For me, I get desperate for sex from time to time, but I can deal with that. What I can't deal with is the fact that I don't have someone close by, being alone is so hard, don't you people agree? I'm mentally desperate at the moment...

Is this only my problem or does anyone out there feels the same as well?

Chatbox

Former Member

Being alone sometimes doesnt really bother me..I like having private time and take it whenever I can.

Never had the need to have people around me all the time. Sometimes feel a bit weird to not want to be with people all the time but thats me so what can i do

Former Member

I totally agree Chatbox, and Manchester is only half an hour down the road from me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Seriously, when you're alone you can't share anything... you're good times or you're bad times. Sometimes you just want another person close to you.

Like Balddog says too, I'm quite an imdependant person anyway and just get on with it.



[This message has been edited by Captain Kirk (edited 05-12-2001).]

Former Member

Yup I know how you feel. I have a really good friend (female) and I've kinda been on love with her for aaages but she's been with a guy for just as long. I kinda know if he wasn't there we'd be together but while they're together there's no chance for lil old Kurt!

Ah well.. Life goes on. I can always sabotage their relationship.

Na I couldn't do that lol, not my style. I can just wait and hope that things will all turn out right in the end. That's all any of us can do, right?

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Former Member

Well hey - I know how you r feelin. I'm just in the process of quitting a 10 year relationship. For the last 3 years he's really shown no interest in sex much & I was kinda just living with that and being in love and not thinkin bout it much. Then, whoops, met someone whilst on tour that just turned me on - wow, instant attraction! Never felt like that b4! Got a very nice weekend with him. Now home again and thinking bout it a lot more - being single does it. But it's like a doors opened that I just can't close - so I'm out looking and getting frustrated when a guy I fancy doesn't show at a club when I'd expected! bah!

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i know wat you mean it didnt really bother me until i was in a relationship and i was soooo happy but then after it you feel so lonely <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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my friend went through a real bad phase when she got panic attacks whenever she was alone. as a result she came to live with me for a while, and then she sarted getting psychiatric help. shes got over the panic attacks, but she still feels a bit uncomfortable if left alone for long periods of time. i dont think this is your problem cos theres always times in everybodies lives when they feel the need to be alone, but then there are also times when you need someone near you. hope this helps.
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I know the feeling. I live on my lonesome, and as much as I love my alone time there's only so much of it that I can take.

When it gets really really bad, I just go out for wanders. I find that even if I don't have anyone to talk to, just having people nearby helps.