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right.. .here i go
i was at a party on thursday and a lot of us got a bit drunk, mainly me :rolleyes: now i met this girl (yeh yeh yeh u've heard it all before right!) only she had a b/f at the time, a bit later on, about 8pints i think, she came over and started talking to me, about that she'd dumped her b/f coz he took summut (cant remember wot!?!?!) and that i woz fit ( :eek: i dont get th@ very often) and that he woz a jerk. i told her to stop and think about it, even tho i woz drunk (weird hey?) and ive just got a message from her, im not sure whether it was her or the drink talking so what should i do? any help appreciated
thx
Ip
i was at a party on thursday and a lot of us got a bit drunk, mainly me :rolleyes: now i met this girl (yeh yeh yeh u've heard it all before right!) only she had a b/f at the time, a bit later on, about 8pints i think, she came over and started talking to me, about that she'd dumped her b/f coz he took summut (cant remember wot!?!?!) and that i woz fit ( :eek: i dont get th@ very often) and that he woz a jerk. i told her to stop and think about it, even tho i woz drunk (weird hey?) and ive just got a message from her, im not sure whether it was her or the drink talking so what should i do? any help appreciated
thx
Ip
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Perhaps give her some space, don't act too keen and see if she's serious about it!
Stay out of it until she has been away from her bf a few weeks, Worse thing is if you start to plan ahead and then she go back to him
Just take it as an ego boost for now and try and be friendly with her;) but don't make any of the moves until your sure the Ex is out of the way.
Umm yes more helpful contributions... Oh, just go for it! You're young, I'm young, she's young, we're all young, life is too short and it's for having fun. So text her back and ask her out
(as long as you aren't expecting a deep and meaningful relationship considering her track record as far as you know...)