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One night Stands good or bad??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
The qs above......what does everyone think?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    100 posts toooooo
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    101 actually

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Bad bad bad bad bad.

    In general.

    Depends on the circumstances.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I reckon they are bad. I would personally, I know people who would/do but generally I dont agree with it.

    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i really don't think it's tooooo bad. im not talkign jumping into bed with someone different each time but... once or twice i don't see the harm.
    I ahve a mate who always gets it on with different ppl and that i thinks stupid.....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it was 100 when i posted it.....bout 104 now...

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    it was 100 when i posted it.....bout 104 now...


    I may let ya off then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;



    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't say I don't agree with them cause I do them quite a lot, tho saying that some one-night stands start relationships.. this topic could also say:

    "Sex on first meeting/date acceptable?"

    I don't go out and think "hmzmzmz, who should I do a one-night with tonight?", its more like I go out and meet someone, sometimes go back to hers/his/mine and then in the morning decide if I want to take it further.

    Thats my opinion anyway... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Quickly adding in my defence, I never two-time and once I'm in a relationship thats me made... thought I'd stick this last bit in so I don't sound like a slag.

    [This message has been edited by Justin Credible (edited 19-04-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bad, unless you're both just out to get laid, then it's good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    (says me with my vast experience of sex!)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And I made it to insane - 250 posts.

    Or 251 for city_boy's benefit!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Bad if you're not single (and claim to be committed to one person) ... otherwise, do what you like, with whom you like, when you like ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by J@ke:

    Bad if you're not single (and claim to be committed to one person) ... otherwise, do what you like, with whom you like, when you like ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I completely agree... the best things in life are free
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Chickadee:
    And I made it to insane - 250 posts.

    Or 251 for city_boy's benefit!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Danka


    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If both people are just in it for the sex, then it doesn't really matter, does it.

    Both if one person is going to be sat by the phone waiting for him/her to phone then its very bad.

    That there
    That's not me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just remeber:
    1.Protection - not a hard hat!(though if they have a wobbly bed, or live on a construction site, then yes wear a hardhat)
    2.If it is a one night stand get the hell out of their first thing in the morning! Don't want it to turn into ... A RELATIONSHIP!


    BaRt
    Anyone who isn't pulling their weight is probably pushing their luck
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:
    I don't go out and think "hmzmzmz, who should I do a one-night with tonight?", its more like I go out and meet someone, sometimes go back to hers/his/mine and then in the morning decide if I want to take it further.


    yeah i agree, i dont see anything wrong with that. its like getting off with people in clubs, you might meet someone really nice, or you might meet someone you dont wanna see again and if they get obsessive you have to hide in toilets!!! or is that just me..? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

    i dont have a set rule for not having sex on first dates, or only after a certain amount of time... just when it feels right.

    but obviously one night stands are bad if youre with someone else!!!!


    Burn baby burn!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If they get obsessive you have to hide in toilets!!! or is that just me..? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

    Nah that me toooo. How nightmare..at first you try to dance at the other side of the club and eventually you have to go running.
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