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One night stands

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
So girls, how many of you have had a few?

Who amongst you wouldn't ever want to? And why not?

:rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've hooked up with people in clubs etc and on holiday, what girl hasn't? but never actually gone home with them and had sex. although somewhat embarrassingly, i did once almost get to that stage (quite drunk at the time) and then panicked and ran down a street seminaked crying out for my friends to come and rescue me... oops :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't "really" had one, although I kind of did. To explain...
    After my long term boyfriend finished with me, I was on the rebound, and got together with another guy from work....we had sex once...and then i really regretted it and sort of tried to stop seeing him, but then we went out with each other for a bit, though i finished it before we had sex again. So it kind of would count as a one night stand,although there was a hint of a relationship there for a couple of months so some people would say it wasn't.
    I'm not sure I'd want to have a one night stand with someone I'd only just met and then would never see again...it just doesn't appeal to me, but then I've always preferred loving sex to simply fucking...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xapis
    I'm not sure I'd want to have a one night stand with someone I'd only just met and then would never see again...it just doesn't appeal to me, but then I've always preferred loving sex to simply fucking...

    That's the difference...

    You might meet someone you really like, but wouldn't be the right person to go steady with. So where's the harm in fucking?

    It's different from sex with a partner though :)

    Both are good :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never had a 1 night stand with a total stranger. I have however had 1 night stand with blokes I knew, but then never spoke to again afterwards! :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I havent had a 1 nite stand with a total stranger.
    I have slept with 3 of my sisters friends i hardly knew, but i knew who they were.
    Would u class them as 1 nite stands? *ponders*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    I havent had a 1 nite stand with a total stranger.
    I have slept with 3 of my sisters friends i hardly knew, but i knew who they were.
    Would u class them as 1 nite stands? *ponders*

    Dammit..... I wish I had a sister.

    Then she could bring back all her mates and her wee bro could try and chat them up :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm dont like to think of them as one night stands.

    More like experiments that didnt go to plan :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    Dammit..... I wish I had a sister.

    Then she could bring back all her mates and her wee bro could try and chat them up :rolleyes:

    It just kinda happened on a drunken nite.
    Bless my sisters tho, she is great.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*


    It just kinda happened on a drunken nite.
    Bless my sisters tho, she is great.

    A drunken night? :rolleyes: Or three drunken nights? ;)
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    i've only had one. i lost my virginity on a one night stand. i was sooo drunk and some random guy (who i'd never met before and never met since) said all the right things to me. didnt use any protection and had to take the morning-after pill. it was my biggest regret. however, i would have another one night stand. as long as circumstances were different.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    A drunken night? :rolleyes: Or three drunken nights? ;)

    Well, yes, 3.

    U like that smilie dont ya. :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*


    Well, yes, 3.

    U like that smilie dont ya. :rolleyes:

    It's trying to look innocent, and very cheeky :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :angel: is innocent.
    :D :razz: is cheeky me thinks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    :angel: is innocent.
    :D :razz: is cheeky me thinks.

    That innocent one wouldn't suit a guy though :p

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    That innocent one wouldn't suit a guy though :p

    :rolleyes:

    Yes it wud :p

    Dont roll ur eyes at me anymore :impissed:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*


    Yes it wud :p

    Dont roll ur eyes at me anymore :impissed:

    And what are you gonna do if I don't stop? ;) Eh? eh? ;):p

    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i had a one night stand thing, tho i wouldnt really call it a one night stand, it was more rape
    i was very drunk, under age, and told him no. but thats guys for ya. some just dnt listen.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :| that is NOT funny young man.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    :| that is NOT funny young man.

    Young man? :eek:

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    Young man? :eek:

    :rolleyes:

    Yes :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*


    Yes :p

    I've got four years on you, so enough of the young ;):p

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    I've got four years on you, so enough of the young ;):p

    :rolleyes:

    Four years is naff all mate :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by perfect***day
    what girl hasn't?
    Me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Erm...I've had 3 one nighters, met my current bloke purely for sex as a one nighter as well but that turned into a budding friendship and now relationship. Same happened with my last fella as well, but drop the friendship part he bored me so soon disappeared out my life.

    Don't make too much of a habbit of it. Have just been through a down spell recently so have allowed guys to use me abit. Got seriously depressed over it all about 5 weeks ago and since then have sorted myself out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kazbo
    Erm...I've had 3 one nighters, met my current bloke purely for sex as a one nighter as well but that turned into a budding friendship and now relationship. Same happened with my last fella as well, but drop the friendship part he bored me so soon disappeared out my life.

    Don't make too much of a habbit of it. Have just been through a down spell recently so have allowed guys to use me abit. Got seriously depressed over it all about 5 weeks ago and since then have sorted myself out.

    You've got a fella but you've been letting guys use you lately? :p

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    You've got a fella but you've been letting guys use you lately? :p

    :rolleyes:

    I only got with my fella just over a week ago. Known him about 4 months. Met as a one nighter, became mates after that. Now going out. I sorted myself out before I got with him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kazbo


    I only got with my fella just over a week ago. Known him about 4 months. Met as a one nighter, became mates after that. Now going out. I sorted myself out before I got with him.

    Nice one :):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by EssEmm


    Nice one :):D

    :yes: me happy. Scares me when he talks like tonight of there not being an end for 70 years and only then cos he'll want a 21 year old again. Tis a good job I know him well enough to know he's messing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    only had the one, it was my first time too. i was very drunk and we neva used protection so i took the MAP. i wouldnt like to make a habit of it but if i was ever that drunk again (been drinking from 2pm till 2am) i dunno what might happen... *walks away thinking of how best to stop this happening*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Welp, I've had one..but I sort of knew he fancied me, and I needed somewhere to stay for that night..and he was there. :chin:
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