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Tossing off your man
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I've just got a new boyfriend. It's gr8, but I've tried to toss him off a couple of times and he didn't cum on either occasion. And the last time we tried it he said it hurt. It may have been because we were stopping and starting (both times were in kinda public places, field and forest). But I just don't know. The only difference between him and my ex boyfriends who have all enjoyed the experience is that he has a smaller penis and I'm not sure how to do it well without hurting him. Please can I get some advice from someone!
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nobody knows better what's nice than himself
half the problem is that ppl having sex are too shy to talk about it - in my opinion of you can't talk about it, you're not mature enough to be doing it...
but some people just find that kind of thing very...personal. sometimes, although it shouldnt be the way, the b/f or g/f of a person isnt someone they really care about and want to get personal with, they want fun and lots of it...so it can be harder
im not saying that's the case in this instance, i just waffle in posts (u may have noticed, i mean for instance...<zzzzzzz> )
so, to conclude my thesis <zzzzzzzzzzz>
oi, attention at the back...<mumbles something about people being wankers that dont listen to him>
talk2 him, ask him, get him2 show you
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Death is one of the few things that can be done as easily lying down. The difference between sex and death is that with death you can do it alone and no one is going to make fun of you
but im sure just cause he didnt cum he wasnt enjoying it.
and if its painful then may b he shud get it checked out at the docs.
good luck
It isn't too uncommon for blokes not to ejaculate if they're not able to relax, ask him to wank off for you to watch. If he can't do it when you are wathing then he might be a bit, umm, shy. Get him to let you watch him wee.
"dry" orgasms are unusual, but not rare.
As for the pain, if you're using more pressure than he does he will be getting bruised, or (more likely) you might have chaffed some of the skin - in effect given him a light graze. I've done that to myself on several occasions - stings like anything, andou get scabs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> If you've done this, and he's not done it before you might find him reluctant to let you near it again
Always remeber making the other person come is nice, but not important.
From what I'v heard, having someone determined to finger you until you come is unlikley to end in success, the same can be true with jerking guys.
don't be so mean. that was unnecessary.
Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.