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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
just a question do men prefer skinny slim women or do they like somethink to grab hold of???


p.s if this offends anyone its not ment to im just interested in your views?????


i can only be nice to 1 person a day today is not your day tommorow isnt looking good either!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bluey:
    just a question do men prefer skinny slim women or do they like somethink to grab hold of???


    p.s if this offends anyone its not ment to im just interested in your views?????


    I've never really minded either way, although I do not find myself attracted to obese women. Slim is nice, but then some women just seem sexier with a bit more meat on their bones...........so I guess it's a matter of personal taste really (and how nice the lady looks either way)



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Again every blokes different!
    I know some who go for stick thin ones, others that prefer bigger ones...i don't think theres really a pattern!
    I just asked one of my mates this and he says.. "it depends one what type of man you are.....bum/boobs/legs" Basically if you go for a small bum (stick thin ppl) Big Bum (anyone normal...lol) and with the boobs, most skinny girls don't have them!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it's like asking a girl the same question about blokes. I can honestly say i've been attracted to the gorgeous bloke (six pac n all) the normal bloke (iccle belly) and the chunky ones. Again i don't think i'd go for soemone Obese ( but im talking HUGE) i've never really met one to be fair!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea i suppose its all about taste aint it one of my male friends thinks that there is nothing wrong with me but then again sum other bloke may think differently its all about what tickles your fancy i suppose!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yup i go with that!!!
    I know many blokes that would be be turned off by me and a few the other way <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i have to say that i'm just perfect and all the blokes fancy me!! heehee only joking.

    Well I think i've got a massive arse (like most girls) and I've always hated it, but i find that blokes seem to like girls with a bit of an arse nowadays!!! I think it's to do with the whole 'Jenifer Lopez' thing!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, that is quite a nice arse <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well im quite happy with my arse im not too happy with my top half too big im not being big headed or anything but i just hate them!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Us girls are never happy are we!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    na mate u got that right! wonder ware dragon is today with all his useful tips DDRRAAGGOONN!!!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jennifer Lopez rocks! All us fat-arsed girls out there need no longer hide our bums! woo-hoo!

    Ahem. Anyway... yeah I think guys kinda fit into one of 2 categories - they either go for tits or arses.

    Any guys wanna agree with me or correct me on that one?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ive got a huge arse!! Mum calls me Jenni.....evil woman!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, i don't like really thin women, they look so unhealthy and malnourished lol, but i don't like obese women (or men) i like someone who has something to hold on to and something to get your arms around lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; but then again, that's just my veiw.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Attractiveness is a hard-to-define quality. The only women I don't find attractive are the blonde bimbo types, just too damn boring. I like any woman who has at least one striking feature that stands out from the crowd, something like a smile that lights up her face or dark hair and light blue eyes is always a winner.

    Aside from that I always look to the eyes first, (they are supposedly the window to the soul after all) and legs second. Full or skinny figures don't make too much difference to me, it's the inherent beauty that counts.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its simple.

    If all the parts compliment, its fine.

    Its when the parts clash that it goes wrong. e.g Large arse complimented by large tits - fine. Large arse complimented by small tits - this is asymetric. Not good.

    But then... small arse, large tits. Looks odd - but in a good way. And before you say "it doesn't look odd" then why does the jaw drop when you come across it....

    Definitely true for me anyhow. I think?

    Theres a theory in their somewhere, but i smoke too much to articulate it.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, its definately hard to define. but ive got a small arse. apparently, i think its big, but hey. most blokes seem to think its nice. but im also pretty thin. im not totally skeltal or anything, but not big. i dont have big boobs. they're ickle. and well some people dont go for that, but some do. like my bloke <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">. everyone's different...
    then again, i like my men however they come. totally obese is not my thing, but if they're skinny then yay. if they're not then yay too.... im weird like that i think. i dont prefere it either way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not picky...If i get through a night without getting slapped by a woman, fat or thin im happy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not really thin, but I'm not fat either, just normal I suppose! I think I have a big bum, but my bf loves it, and I also have a decent sized chest! lol! My bf also loves the fact that he has a bit of meat to grab on to, and he is always playing with my love handles!! I suppose it depends on the guy tho, coz I know some would definately not b attracetd to me, but I also know others who r! Its all down to taste isnt it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok so you've talked about thin or fat women.

    What about thin blokes? like do u just think that they are weedy? or can they be sexy aswell?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some can look gay esp if they dress in tight tops........lol!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by tourette:
    Ok so you've talked about thin or fat women.

    What about thin blokes? like do u just think that they are weedy? or can they be sexy aswell?


    Well personally i've realised that i tend 2 go 4 slim blokes. I dunno why but all my bf's & nearly all the guys i've fancied etc have been slim guys.

    Thats not 2 say that if i liked a larger guy i wouldn't go out wit him or ne thing but i do tend 2 be more attracted 2 slimmer men.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i love a nice bit of meat
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jennifer Lopez has a reputation for having "curves" simply because she is larger than the majority of film stars.
    Put her next to someone off the street and you would think she was anorexic.
    It is not that she has a large arse, she has a small one, it is just everyone else on TV is even smaller!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by YouBastard:
    Jennifer Lopez has a reputation for having "curves" simply because she is larger than the majority of film stars.
    Put her next to someone off the street and you would think she was anorexic.
    It is not that she has a large arse, she has a small one, it is just everyone else on TV is even smaller!


    yeah, actually thats a good point. i neva thought of that b4!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not meaning offence to anybody, just a personal preferance. SLIM WOMEN i really cant handle podgy or obbese women, just to much, thin body, fair size uptop and a 'chizeled' face, ANAREXIA is WRONG though!

    Cheers

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I`m very much a tit man.
    There is no real pattern to it.
    The largest I`ve ever liked is size 12/14, I think 12 is supposed to be average or summit ain`t it?
    Although I do generally not go for really thin women, curves are good, thin women very rarely have any.

    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    12 average???????? lol my arse it is. read the other post on it but 16 's about average.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Erm,skinny i wud think,im 14 and a size 8/10,but i don't really know! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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