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do i love him?
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rite, the thing is, theres this lad i know, and i really like him, i think im in love with him! we have done stuff together, we have kissed, and we have also had sex. and i have reasons to believe that he may be gay or bi, a lot of my friends are, bt i feel so, well, crushed that this one may be, i am really protective over him. he hasnt actually told me himself, bt i really think he mite be. i can cope with him bein bi, bt i dnt thnk i can cope with him being gay, i would feel ruined, i would get so jealous if he did anythin wif antoher m8, i really cant say how much i love him, my feelings are very strong. i am not gay myself, bt i may be bi, i am not certain tho...
is there any1 who can help? please? i really need sum advice!
david
is there any1 who can help? please? i really need sum advice!
david
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Chill.
well, u c, we werent officially goin out or nethin, its was more like casual sex, and we have never talked about it, and im jst too shy/scared to, incase he doesnt want to. the reason y i would feel so distraught if he was bi/gay is bcos, well, i love him so much, i would do anything for him! and, if he started d8in ne of my mates, i wud be so hurt, i really dont know how i would cope. i would be really jealous cos im so protective over him.
its not easy trying to take a step back tho, im am totally in love, i would do anythin for him, bt i jst cant tell him bcos im nt too sure that im bi, and he may not like me anymore, and that would hurt me so much.
i wudnt mind as much if he was bi, bt if he was gay, then i get the impresion he would like to 'experiment' more with his new sexuality, and that would destroy me! i jst want him so badly. wot should i do? i cant forget about him, and i cant really tell him how i feel.
if he did admit he was gay/bi, should i then tell him how i feel? so then we could talk about it more? or not?
david
To be honest you sound confused. Maybe you shouldnt have rushed into something like this. Your best bet is to think it over in your head first, decide how and what you feel then decide if you think you need to talk it over with him.
Good luck
david
You called this thread Do I love him?And your username is I love him so?
You seem to think you love him or want to love him- and we dont know if you really love him,onlyb you can know for sure!