I GIVE UP WITH WOMAN

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Im a 16 year old who is pissed off because no matter how hard i try i find it impossible to get a girlfriend, they all say U make me laugh and i think, thats a good start. But then that is when it stops. Should i not try to hard or try harder. I think i would rather be friends and see what happens from there, ive wasted way too much energy on the opposite sex, ill just wait, that could take a while, oh well fuck it!

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I know the feeling.

I've got some great friends that are female. The three people I go to when times get a bit tough are all female. But I've never had a gf (I'm 16 as well).

I've had some rotten luck. Living in an expat society, families are always on the go. Twice now girls I've got really close to - and who have responded - have moved away before anything could happen.

I only got my first kiss on my 16th b'day. Sad, innit?

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I know how your feeling. I am in exactly the same situation and it is really annoying. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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damn, y'all getting a bit depressed bout it...
Reckon u should lighten up bout it all, chill out n not try so hard n not see it as some big thing... Y'all will pull loads more without trying to.... even gets annoying sometimes pulling when u dont want to..
But seriously I had the same problem until I gave up trying real hard... then it kjust happens

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hiya,
just b ur self, if peeps dont like it its there loss, not urs.
go out have a laugh, dont expect anythin, then when things do happen it will b a nice surprise.
ur only 16, what u want a girlie 4? u should b out with ur mates havin a laugh.
the time will come 4 the right girl, may not b 4 years and years yet, or mayb next week, u never know.
c ya love helly

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i can go out and pull without too much hastle, but i feel its time i want a relashonship, although ill just let it come

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Just relax about the whole thing. I think its you who's been doing loads of posts asking how you can get a girlfriend? Just relax and take things as they come. If you try really hard at it that can show and put people off. Don't worry, you'll get there in the end.

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i put up posts like that cause that is the only thing i can actually think of

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Don't go looking, that's how you end up with the sad/desperate/intellectually challenged ones. Just kick back, relax and you'll get the sorta chica u deserve <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

Good luck.

*|* Chica *|*

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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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I find sometimes your best looking for a friend in the girl first than looking at them as a girlfriend from the start.

This way you will act like yourself and not put on a face to impress the girl.

good luck to you

NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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Doesn't "Chica" mean bubblegum in Italian or summin? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

I know a dog called Chica. Lives next door. That's what I get for living is CH!

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Give up on them, mate! Women are ALL bitches! None of them are worth the hassle, very few of them are worth the oxygen it takes to keep them alive! You're better off pretending to be gay! (Nothing wrong with being gay BTW!) Then just laugh at them when the trot out the old "Why do all the nice, caring, considerate, attractive men have to have boyfriends" and tell them that they could have had you, but the were too fucking stupid!

Women! If they had brains, they still wouldn't use them!

Oh, BTW, I'm 30, had my first (of 3!) kiss when I was 23 and STILL haven't had a proper girlfriend! Man, Tom Cruise is beggining to look mighty nice...

Snowman

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(Laughing hysterically)

Wooohooo! Nice one, Mr. Turtle! I never imagined being insulted by someone whose nickname implied an over the hill 00.5 mph speed limit <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

What sort of lunatic do you live next door to? Must be a bit of a headcase if he names his pets after Italian bubblegum <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

I'll pretend you didn't say that, schnucumbs, I would hate to have to get divorced two times in the same week. By a turtle and a panther, I might add ...

*|* Chica *|*

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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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I wasn't trying to insult you, just pointing it out. I live next to a Swiss. That's a valid answer. I'm not being racist, just the Swiss are generally a bit strange.

I'd hate for you to leave me. :-)

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I am not married to EVERY guy on the board, just a select few <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; Not you though. I divorced you and married Turtle. And I got the good TV. Just off to take my anti-hallucination pills ...

*|* Chica *|*

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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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Great, I'm married to a freak :-)

Well, I guess I'll learn to love ya. I'll do my best. I'll enjoy watching the good TV though. I always wanted a widescreen. Don't hate me for it Panthers :-)

Ok. This is silly. Chic's, stop flaunting our relationship. I don't want a psycotic Pathers coming to our door with an axe.

Enough. Thank you for listening and good night.

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excuse me sorry to interrupt your conversation but can u please stick to the subject, dont mean to sound rude but u can read cant u?

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I'd reply, but I've been blown to bits.

Thanks Chica, thanks loads Panthers. :-)

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Sowy Chris. We was just having a teeny weeny bi' o' fun. We hope you forgive us.

See Chica, the trouble you get me into! I'm now in small bits scattered across my front lawn. Ew! Not nice.

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Fun eh? i guess its ok, only if i can be included in any weird conversations u may be having!

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Originally posted by brightonian:
I know how your feeling. I am in exactly the same situation and it is really annoying. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

Yes, but fuck all that. We are in second place mate! We're going up boy!!! Palace, Palace here we come!!

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Harry is very definitely on the boat.

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Sorry Christopher, daaarrrhhhhling (I've had a few already) I don't mean to let my illustruous love life (as if) and bigamy get in the way. And Panthers sweetie, I was going to give you back the widescreen as a consolation prize, but you just blew it up! You fruitcake, you!

Anyway, I suggest that you DO leave off the girls for an 'ickle while, chrissy, as if you do poach one you'll probably just get pissed off with her for not being perfect while you're in this state of mind. Concentrate on other things, eg wombles, or take up a hobby. Whatever floats your boat (apart from Harry!)

Then chances are it'll happen naturally and you'll meet a girl who doesn't just want to be friends. You can quote me on that. And if you're feeling a little lonely in the meantime, you can morph yourself into mine and dirty_harry's secret lovechild! Hehe. You know you're the only one for me, Turtle! lol.

Later boys.
And good luck.It's a CRUUUEL world out there.

*|* Chica *|*

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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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Inspirational advise there chica, i dont want everyone thinking im a sad computer geek who has no friends cause thats not true!! i just cannot be assed with them, i always meet bloody strange ones, why cant they act normal instead of bloody screaming and laughing at nothing with eachother and actually make useful conversationm shit i gotta get out of this frame of mind but its so hard with all the strasnge women in the world.

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, i dont want everyone thinking im a sad computer geek who has no friends cause thats not true!! B]

Chris, we'd never think that. Stop being so defensive! I'm sure you have many friends, and all of them are as interesting as you. Just try to relax about the whole girl thing.

If your having severe problems getting a girl friend, do you really think it can be cured by just posting up messages and hoping for someone to send you a sure thing way to get girls to like you?

Just relax. It will happen, and it will probably happen sooner if you stop making such a big issue out of it. Take it easy, take up a relaxing hobby like gardening, andthey'll be queueing up! Take it easy.

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Originally posted by chrishot4u:
i always meet bloody strange ones, why cant they act normal instead of bloody screaming and laughing at nothing with eachother and actually make useful conversation.

Damn where do y live chris...swear u most no me, lol

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ok im not gonna put any more posts up about girls now, although i dont know what else to put, oh well im sure ill find something!

WHY CANT GEOGRAPHY COURSEWORK BE BANISHED!!

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BECAUSE THEN YOU'D NEVER PASS YOUR EXAM!!

lol... I know what you mean though. And don't worry kid, we don't mind you getting pissed off with screaming/cackling/intellectually challenged girls. They piss me off too. I hate people who collapse into fits of giggles without even the excuse of Red Devil <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

*|* Chica *|*

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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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hey guys, quit dissing all us girlies out there. the whole love game is difficult for us too and we have issues with guys. you make us out to be such bitches!

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i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

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well if u girls have so many problems why dont u put o post up and actually find out why!!