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Bad Timing

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Recently had a hot encounter with a sexy woman. She had it all beautiful face, great body which she knew how to use and most important she wasn't shy. We talked for weeks about what we would do to each other the night of our big encounter. I spent weeks jacking morning, noon and night thinking about her. My big moment comes and all I can get is a semi. I can't believe it. I realized I shouldn't have jerked off twenty minutes before the date but I just thought it would prolong my orgasm. I was right it did till the next day to bad she wasn't there to see it. What did I do wrong????

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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Its maybe just the fact that you were nervous (if you were).

    Maybe 20mins before wasnt such a good idea, but I cant tell if its the wrong thing to do
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    had the same thing myself a few weeks back - I think it was because you'd spent so long promising her what you'd do to her that when it came to the crunch you doubted whether you were the person you promised to be in reality. It's much better to let actions speak louder...etc

    I'll shoot your ego in a minute.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by badben:
    [because you'd spent so long promising her what you'd do to her that when it came to the crunch you doubted whether you were the person you promised to be in reality

    You guys may be right I did promise her the world. But what I promised her I delivered did the foreplay, did the oral on her everywhere if you get the picture I had no problem really till I put on "some protective outer wear for my journey”. I’m thinking now a week of steady "practice swings" masturbation and that pre warm up wack 20 minutes before may have done me in. I need a woman’s advice any woman ever encounter this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi HN, welcome to TheSite

    Can I suggest that you introduce yourself to the other board users before you ask that kind of question?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Karla:


    Can I suggest that you introduce yourself to the other board users before you ask that kind of question?

    why????? don't get that

    anyway, wouldn't worry about it mate, it may just be the whole condom thing...i reeeaaally hate them and find they spoil the moment. i prefer foreplay to sex, until i find a girl i want to have unprotective ( as far as condoms go ) with then i just put up with it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    why????? don't get that

    It's coz we get so may odd ppl here if you introduce yourself it kinda signals that you're trustworthy to an extent!!

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    It's coz we get so may odd ppl here if you introduce yourself it kinda signals that you're trustworthy to an extent!!


    i get what you mean.... but to me it seems like this guy actually has a problem he needs help with. i think the introduction thing is more useful if you're just asking about turn ons or specific things lik how you masturbate, which sound like they're just for personal gratification.... karla, maybe you should direct your efforts elsewhere <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    as for your prob, hello newman..... an ex bf had the same trouble.. all the advice ive seen, suggests that you should make the putting on of a condom a sensual experience, getting your girl to do it, maintaining contact with you the whole time, or roll it on gently with her teeth. that might help you maintain your erection.

    if you findn that no matter what you do to stop losing it with condoms... maybe consider other methods of contraception. thats what me and the ex did, i went on the pill (we were both virgins at the time so STDs werent an issue).

    but whatever happens, DONT just try it without condoms with no other form of contraception, unless you want to become a daddy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Karla:
    Hi HN, welcome to TheSite

    Can I suggest that you introduce yourself to the other board users before you ask that kind of question?

    Well then let me introduce myself I am sorry first off if my question offended anyone. It was not my intent.Im Newman from the USA and recently purchased my first computer to get on the internet to help take my mind off my problems. I happened to find this site while doing a search on well never mind and happened to come across this forum. As for being odd what can I say? As for being trustworthy what can I say? All I know is I have a few personal sex related experiences that maybe your fellow posters can relate to or help me with some advice.From the responces I have read so far I would like to thank all of you. I do believe the condom thing may have been a factor in my problem.
    For my dates protection and my own we decided to "double bag" my member.Which caused no feeling down there at all but better to be safe then sorry. Any way I just hope I can be accepted into your fourm community.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Hello Newman:
    For my dates protection and my own we decided to "double bag" my member.Which caused no feeling down there at all but better to be safe then sorry. Any way I just hope I can be accepted into your fourm community.

    noooo dont do that!! that makes it more likely for it to slip off, or something that makes it more risky. i forget. if you're worried about that, then you can get thicker condoms, which are recommended for use in anal sex, coincidentally. no idea what they're called tho, sorry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    noooo dont do that!! that makes it more likely for it to slip off, then you can get thicker condoms, which are recommended for use in anal sex,
    Wasn't sure there was condoms made for anal sex thanks for the info will check with my pharmacist on that one. As for double bagging I think your right I would hate for one to slip off guess i been lucky so far.I think i will masturbate wearing a double bagger to see if it comes off that will be like screwing so i will see.thanks for the info.
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