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HELP! i'm a nervous virgin

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I'm a 16 year old male and I think I need help...or some advice.

I've never had a proper girlfriend before and never experienced foreplay with another girl. But I really want to.

The trouble is I don't even know how to 'chat a girl up'. I talk to girls and have a laugh with them, but that's about it.

I don't know if they like me enough for me to ask them out.

What should I do?
I really want a relationship with a girl and I am not sure what to do.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u have to let them know your interrested, cause there not going to make the first move. Touch there forearm when ur talking to them, let them know u want them! u have to flirt with them, be abit kinky , they will think it is a joke at first but if they are interested they will play along and that is when to make the move, and truse me there are plenty of good sites on the netto help u with some foreplay tips, or the ones here at thesite.org. be yourself and pay more attention to them and conpliment, make them laugh, dont be too nice u have to be abit rough sometimes, they love it really thenu get to make up, hee hee. u should now be banging a girl as u r reading this because this advice is quality!! hope u get a fuck soon!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh Christopher, you're such a romantic!

    You might want to get chatting to some new girls with luurrvvee in mind i.e. making moves on chics you're mates with isn't often sucessful (OK, so it worked with me but that's not the point!)

    If it's not just a cheap shag you're looking for, (I really hope not) then just be yourself, smile a lot and just go for it!

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well chica i am quite a romantic guy. Oh bye the way, "HAVE U MADE HER SOAR YET???" just out of interest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Chris reminds be of Australian foreplay (brace yourself Sheilla). I think you have to work out if your out for a long term relationship, or a "quick fuck" as chris so wonderfully put it! What do you want more?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    AUSSIE RULES!! well u always have to act fast otherwise other blokes just take them from right under your nose. Its a cruel game and u have to be on top! Ok if u want a slow build up then work on seducing her, taunt her, tease her, woo her, cum over her if she gives u the chance, ive said enough. happy hunting.

    WHY WONT THE LADIES GIVE INTO TO THERE TEMPTATIONS!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    BECAUSE WE'RE NOT ALWAYS THAT TEMPTED!!

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya brightonian.
    dont worry, i know its hard. but b urself, and if peeps dont like it forget em.
    ive slept with 2 peeps, and i am beginning to regret it now, i didnt up untill recently though.
    i met a lad on monday, and hes 18, and hes a virgin, i was well gob smacked as hes a cross b tween beckham, adam rickett and brad pitt so hes a typical boyband lookin guy, and to my presumption at the time 'had been around a bit' but to my surprise he aint. i think its nice and so we went out last nite again! he aint ashamed about it at all either, he laughs about it openly.
    dont stress, it will happen when it happens, ur time will come.
    c ya love helly
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by helly:
    i met a lad on monday, and hes 18, and hes a virgin, i was well gob smacked as hes a cross b tween beckham, adam rickett and brad pitt so hes a typical boyband lookin guy, and to my presumption at the time 'had been around a bit' but to my surprise he aint.

    Helly dear, you poor, delusional girl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Harry is very definitely on the boat.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he thing to do if u wanna pull is not try to... just be friendly, chat too people as friends rather than thinking bout will u pull em...
    If ur not expierienced make sure u dont expect good looking girls, it's easier to pul;l girls that rn't good looking n u get expierienced...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by brightonian:
    I'm a 16 year old male and I think I need help...or some advice.

    I've never had a proper girlfriend before and never experienced foreplay with another girl. But I really want to.

    The trouble is I don't even know how to 'chat a girl up'. I talk to girls and have a laugh with them, but that's about it.

    I don't know if they like me enough for me to ask them out.

    What should I do?
    I really want a relationship with a girl and I am not sure what to do.

    The only way you'll find out if they like you enough is to ask them out.

    Just be yourself, but take a risk or two, you might be suprised.

    J9

    ps, like your website http://www.geocities.com/weirdnetuk/


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    harryontheboat, what u tryin 2 say, he aint a virgin? and that im stupid 4 believeing him. u dont know either of us.
    didnt c u posting a helpful reply, just making smarky comments.
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