The Sex Game

Former Member

Hi yea all!
Any one got any advice for me. cos you see im going out with a loverly girl who i really like and i know she likes me.i want to know though if she is like into wanting to go further in a relationship in the future, but i dont wanna just ask her as its like an on the spot thing. all i know is she likes sending me erotic tx messages so i was wondering if this was a clue. anyone got any ideas how i can find out what she wants and when? or should i just let it all happen?
Da EssexLad

Former Member

Tough one this, I think only you can make the decision, look for specific clues in the messages, any little hints, and also only you can judge her by personality. She may just love sending sexy little messages on her new phone or perhaps she does want it, if you feel close enough try to ask her how far in the relationship she wants to go. I think you should both wait till your sure your ready. Good luck

JsT

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Former Member

i'd say keep yexin etc, but start askin que's,about serious stuff.
i like sending naughty, kinky messages, even if im not 2 keen on the lad! its fun!
just let things progress at their own pace, dont force any relationship or u'll scare her away.

Former Member

Originally posted by helly:
i'd say keep yexin etc, but start askin que's,about serious stuff.
i like sending naughty, kinky messages, even if im not 2 keen on the lad! its fun!
just let things progress at their own pace, dont force any relationship or u'll scare her away.

Or she might get bored waiting, & assume you're not interested. lol

Former Member

Get her over your place one night like, before you go to the flicks or whatever. Get snogging. She'll let you know how far she wants to go. Don't come on too strong though.

Or on the other hand, you could just send her a textie telling her 2 come over for... well, whatever word you think is suitable. If she doesn't come (geographically, you understand) tell her you were joking and at least you'll know where you stand with her in that aspect.

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