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This girl wanna **** me, what do i do?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I think my girlfriend wants to have sex with me and i really wabt to as well. i know this because she is a dirty girl, which can be nice sometimes. But i dont wanna dissapoint her so i wanna know some techniques. Im afraid i might go soft while doing her because i am gonna be quite nervous, same happened when i was being tossed off for the first time. I just wanna satisfy her so if there are any tips, PLEASE TELL ME!


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There are quite a few sites out there giving tips and strategies that will help your love life.Try searching for some.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't know if this is going to help or not, BUT

    Everytime I have done it with a new partner, the first time - I have had major problems getting a hard-on. So I think it happens more often than you think.

    So what do you do about it?
    I suggest when the opportunity occurs, you be honest with your g/friend, explain you are worried about getting a stiffy and are nervous - If she is caring she will understand and be patient.
    -If she laughs or jokes about it, then she isn't worth bothering about.

    Take Sickminds advice about looking for tips - but remember

    -be sensitive, be gentle, relax and above all enjoy it. - You say you wanna satisfy her, remember though you have needs also.

    take care
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well first of all you might wanna make sure that she DOES waant to have sex: there is nothing worse than a sexual misunderstanding!

    You say you want 2 satisfy her, and sorry if I'm wrong but is this because you like her, etc or because you just want to be good at it?! Obviously you want to be good but can you talk to her about these kind of worries?

    If not then you're not alone because a lot of guys can't talk to there g/fs [or anyone else for that matter!] about hard-on fears. Again, I know I sound preachy but the chances are that you'll have less probs if you're comfortable with her than if you're shit-scared of her spreading it that you're impotent or something!

    Sex is better for us when the lad isn't nervous. If can't help that then you'll never know until u try! Everyone is a bit scared on there first time but just go for it and have fun! And if you can't keep it up that long then it's not the end of the world because younger guys have a quicker recovery rate i.e. it won't take you the next 24 hours for round 2! Get discussing those condom flavours <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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