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What will he think?????????

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; Im new 2 this thing, im 14 and would like 2 have sex someday!!!!!!
the thing that is really embarrassing me is that i have a little bit of fat around my midriff.....i have a b/friend and he seems 2 b satisfied wiv me (wen we hug) but what will n e boy say if we were gonna have sex?????
u can email me at
chelseaf13@hotmail.com orr just replie in here
Thank u so much
charley
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldnt worry about it. If you are having sex for the right reasons, which you seem you are, then you have nothing to worry about. No-ones perfect and i really wouldnt worry about it.

    c_b <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    "Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
    - Woody Allen
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If ur blokie didnt like u 4 who u r, then he wouldnt b with u. try not 2 worry hun. and as city_boy said, no1 is perfect, and we all have things we dont like about r selves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u took the words right out of my mouth helly!
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">*tisha* <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    hehe the same applies to me actually, my stomach's bothering me lately coz its getting plumper <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; but neither of my bfs have complained or said anything bad about it, they've said that they like it. so hopefully you wont be unfortunate enough to sleep with anyone shallow and judgmental enough to be bothered about it!!
    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; but neither of my bfs have complained or said anything bad about it

    you have 2 bfs????lucky sod!!

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by scaredycat!:
    you have 2 bfs????lucky sod!!


    rofl oooooooh phrased that badly!!

    i meant neither my ex bf nor my current bf!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; @ me!!


    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry hun, if he's going out with you he is going out with your personality, sense of humour and your body.

    He'll be as nervous as you are about his body aswell, I know I am.

    The first time with a girl for me is like loosing my viginity all over again as u don't what they like and its a learning curve for both of you.

    Good luck and don't worry.

    NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Sex is like a romantic meal, more time on the foreplay the greater pleasure you get!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    rofl oooooooh phrased that badly!!

    i meant neither my ex bf nor my current bf!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt; @ me!!


    shame!nice to have to wouldnt it?!?! see,its rite,us gurlies are neva satisfied!however hard these men try,they cant satisfy us 100 pc!eg...they dont buty us flash cars!!????bad example maybe?im bored still...better stop writting!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey CharleyBaby..
    It's totally right what ppl have been saying... your boyf will never be as critical of your body as you r. He will love it just because it's u.. anyway tell ureself what i always tell myself...'The curves are part of a woman'.. it makes u more feminine.

    anyway dont worry abt it,
    love me xxx

    P.S i had the same worries .. just get to know each others bodies gradually dont just jump in and have sex.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by scaredycat!:
    shame!nice to have to wouldnt it?!?! see,its rite,us gurlies are neva satisfied!however hard these men try,they cant satisfy us 100 pc!eg...they dont buty us flash cars!!????bad example maybe?im bored still...better stop writting!



    lol hmmmm maybe, not with the 2 guys i was referring to though! the first is definitely ancient history!!! lol

    flash car wouldnt be any good for me, i cant drive! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldn't worry personally....... are you worried bout the state of his tum or anything?????????? honestly it doesn't matter only to SHALLOW men..
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