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having fun wih ur friends!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi guys i'm 14 yrs old and i went on a school trip to paris recently and me and my mate had to share a bed and we were both jakin' off to some porn and we kinda jacked eachother off and i was just wondering is that okay or does it mean i am gay??? PLZ REPLY I NEED AN ANSWER!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :)

    sounds like a laugh man, gotta try everything once! :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: having fun wih ur friends!!!
    Originally posted by all4u
    we kinda jacked each other off and i was just wondering is that okay or does it mean i am gay???
    Probably not.

    Probably not okay - You would both get onto the child protection register if the law found out; if your peer group found out they would undoubtedly make things unpleasant.

    Probably not gay - I'm guessing the pR0n was typical suggestive/submissive young woment wearing not a lot, and the pleasure you obtained from the jerking off was that it was someone else doing it, not a man doing it.

    If, on the othe hand, you enjoyed the feel of the other lads cock in your hand, and were excited by how he was reacting to your services - well that does sound a bit gay
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If on the other hand...


    :lol::lol::lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: having fun wih ur friends!!!
    Originally posted by all4u
    Hi guys i'm 14 yrs old and i went on a school trip to paris recently and me and my mate had to share a bed and we were both jakin' off to some porn and we kinda jacked eachother off and i was just wondering is that okay or does it mean i am gay??? PLZ REPLY I NEED AN ANSWER!!!

    No, it doesn't mean you're gay. It was only a wank after all, nothing more. Don't feel guilty about it (which you shouldn't do anyway even if you are gay).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't say that you're gay, you're 14 and your hormones are flying everywhere and you got abit over excited at the porn. If you think about you're friend in a sexual way alot then that's different, but you said it just kinda happend and I think you were just two young lads getting abit carried away :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    now dont get me wrond cus i have done similar, and this aint an anit gay thing or anything. but u were sharing a bed rite and both of ur were wanking on ur own first ?? cus that seems a bit odd that u both felt comfortable wanking with another person, a close friend next to u. i mean did u have tissues?? were the sheets down cus that could get messy and u have to share the bed. i mean i cant see a problem with it and i would say it made u gay but i would say dont tell any of ur peer group. most of them will have similar experience but they wont say so and they will victimism u for it forever. anyway enough bitter banter

    i got things to doooo never be afriad to experiment just dont expect people to except u. well except us
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: having fun wih ur friends!!!
    Originally posted by all4u
    Hi guys i'm 14 yrs old and i went on a school trip to paris recently and me and my mate had to share a bed and we were both jakin' off to some porn and we kinda jacked eachother off and i was just wondering is that okay or does it mean i am gay??? PLZ REPLY I NEED AN ANSWER!!!

    You say you 'kinda' jacked each other off? What are you rrying to mean here? you did it but you're ashamed about it, or you did something different from jacking off or what? :confused:

    Seriously though, don't worry about it. Sex play between people of the same sex is very normal and it doesn't mean you fancy people of the same sex, it can just happen when there aren't any girls around. If you were gay you'd know about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and a friend used to do this aswell, exept it went a bit further, we gave each other BJ's and that, but dont worry, i was a similar age and its a hormone thing, chill!
    Youlll find alot of lads do this, but theyll never admit it!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jayjay620

    Youlll find alot of lads do this, but theyll never admit it!!

    Um i'd disagree with that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    about the sharing a bed thing, we had to share a double bed cos on the first nite there werent enough rooms with seperate beds in. and now onto the 'kinda' i meant kinda as in we didnt go any further we just jacked eachother off

    thanks though guys it answered my question and now i know i am not someone who tosses off their mates now and then.

    CHEERS!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by all4u
    thanks though guys it answered my question and now i know i am not someone who tosses off their mates now and then.

    CHEERS!!!

    Yeah it is gay if you keep doing it !!

    Once is allowed as an accident !!

    More is G A Y !!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nop ur not gay. ill confess ya all. i have, done sex things with another guys. calm down, dont mean you are gay. it just means you were horny. horny guys is not good sometimes. ah well. it gets worse tho. i remember when i was about to have sex with a girl once i was so horny i just wanted to take her all the way. i backed out at last minute tho.......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter


    Yeah it is gay if you keep doing it !!

    Once is allowed as an accident !!

    More is G A Y !!!

    Very mature! You've obviously wanked more than once so that makes you a WANKER!!!


    All4u, if you do it as a form of masturbation without any emotional feeling towards him but are just going through the actions 'cos it feels nice to have someone elses hand on your cock, then you are not gay - not matter how many times you do it.

    If you have emotional feelings for him, you may be gay BUT you may also be just a little confused at this stage of your life. You'll probably only know for sure when you reach 17 or 18 if girls really don't turn you on ... and being gay is nothing to worry about anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Getting kicks off another guy wanking you off is hardly very straight now is it?

    Maybe not gay, but possibly bisexual?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And fucking one's girlfriend up the arse isn't exactly straight either. Using a "gay" technique doesn't preclude him to being gay or bisexual. Being gay or bisexual is a mental inclination - the actions in themselves mean nothing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry DH but i agree with Teagan.

    And he was only expressing his opinion, so there's no need to insult anyone. you couldve expressed your opinion in a million better ways.

    I'm a girl btw,so think about that before you try and attack me too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter


    Shut up you obviously closet homo bitch.

    Fucking a women in the ass is obviously diffrent as your ball sack smacks against a pussy and not another ball sack.

    You moron, yes wanking does make one a wanker, i'm not the one denying.

    And I suppose you don't want your just a person who goes on stars in your eyes every week, except its eye in your star for you !

    Hello Ghost Hunter Killa (or whatever you were called). Still a twat I see :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Samuti, sorry if you were insulted, i deleted the thread.

    Teagen, I think your reply sucked. Didn't appreciate being called a wanker as it suggests that I am a monogamist when in fact I enjoy many female partners also.

    As for your theory about anal sex hmmmm you didn't think about the physics of it too much did you.

    Samuti, if you want to agree with teagen go ahead i won't lose sleep, but let it be because his argument is valid and not because mine offended you.

    God its so hard to not flame the little T monster !!!!!


    Resist resist, I feel like a pot noodle advert !!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx for the apology Dh.

    and yeah, i agreed with him coz of his argument, not because of anything you said.

    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Samuti
    Thanx for the apology Dh.

    and yeah, i agreed with him coz of his argument, not because of anything you said.

    :)

    Doh repost flame repost flame !!!


    So if you had little brother and he and his male friend wanked each other off watching porn you would think hey its cool your not weird. I mean I heard stories when i was in school about scouts who play soggy biscuit.

    Basically they stood around masturbating (themselves) last one to cum on biscuit had to eat it !!!! euuuggghhhh

    Now as confused as kids can be, no one is that confused !!!

    I always got wood with female teachers !!!!!

    blah blah anyway back to work for me !!!! Chillax and relax but fella's keep your mitts off my candy stick !!! I'm out peace !!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    Teagen, I think your reply sucked. Didn't appreciate being called a wanker as it suggests that I am a monogamist when in fact I enjoy many female partners also.


    My reply sucked? And your origonal reply was balanced and informative? I think the term WANKER sums you up pretty well. This guy was asking for advice and your reply was just completely unhelpful. Prisoners, for example, indulge in same-sex activities but they leave prison without being gay. So, why should he be gay if he doesn't bond in a mentally sexual way with men? He's just indulging in a higher form of masturbation. Harmless!

    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    As for your theory about anal sex hmmmm you didn't think about the physics of it too much did you.

    Physics? Or do you mean BIOLOGY? Duh! Wanker!

    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    God its so hard to not flame the little T monster !!!!!

    Flame me as much as you like, Wanker. I can just choose to ignore you.

    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    So if you had little brother and he and his male friend wanked each other off watching porn you would think hey its cool your not weird. I mean I heard stories when i was in school about scouts who play soggy biscuit.

    Basically they stood around masturbating (themselves) last one to cum on biscuit had to eat it !!!! euuuggghhhh

    I do have a little brother and I would be concerned for him BUT I wouldn't fuck his head up by implying he was gay when at that age he probably isn't.
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    Now as confused as kids can be, no one is that confused !!!

    So, what's your excuse then?
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    I always got wood with female teachers !!!!!

    Who you trying to convince, WANKER? We only have your word for it. And who says that he doesn't get woodys with female teachers either?
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    blah blah anyway back to work for me !!!! Chillax and relax but fella's keep your mitts off my candy stick !!! I'm out peace !!

    Yeah, fuck off!

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awaits toaster !!! * dumdedumdedum*


    Yawn and I was having such a bad day ! :)

    All chirpy now !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Glad that you're so easily pleased. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Higher form of masturbation ?????

    What on the top bunk instead of bottom ?

    Anal sex in prison is acceptable straight behaviour ????

    WHAT ???????


    *Holds head high and thanks a higher being (hopefully not masturbating) that for every ass clown there is a bucket for him to shit into* - Demon Hunters Final Thought !!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    *Holds head high and thanks a higher being (hopefully not masturbating) that for every ass clown there is a bucket for him to shit into* - Demon Hunters Final Thought !!!

    Let's hope it is your final thought - you seem to have too much trouble thinking.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jayjay620
    me and a friend used to do this aswell, exept it went a bit further, we gave each other BJ's and that, but dont worry, i was a similar age and its a hormone thing, chill!
    Youlll find alot of lads do this, but theyll never admit it!!

    Eh no they dont! Ever!
    I would say I have an open mind in terms of sexuality. But giving each other bj's crosses way over that line! If you want to feel someone elses hand wanking you off get a gf or sit on yur hand till it goes dead and try that:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter


    Doh repost flame repost flame !!!


    So if you had little brother and he and his male friend wanked each other off watching porn you would think hey its cool your not weird. I mean I heard stories when i was in school about scouts who play soggy biscuit.

    Basically they stood around masturbating (themselves) last one to cum on biscuit had to eat it !!!! euuuggghhhh

    Now as confused as kids can be, no one is that confused !!!

    I always got wood with female teachers !!!!!

    blah blah anyway back to work for me !!!! Chillax and relax but fella's keep your mitts off my candy stick !!! I'm out peace !!
    aah, I didn't realise it was you Ghost face Killa, if it is, but it sounds like you, homophobe, I enjoyed your downfall last time.
    And yes, well done you're 100% heterosexual, gay hating idiot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ghost face killa ?

    I thought that was supposed to be DMX now ?????

    I'm not a homophobe, but I can't understand how people can think one guy wanking another off is anything other then at least homoerotic?(not to me) If not full blown homosexual behaviour.

    Can I take it then Silverberg that you are a person who has experimented with stuff like this?

    If you read my other posts you'll see I can change my opinion if people use good arguments. Telling me that prisoners fucking each other isn't gay either isn't gonna change my mind. I doubt you read this full thread because you seem not well informed and probably read one post and said "he hates my kind".


    Can I ask? Do you think when one man takes another up the ass with consent that its still not Gay, So long as neither loves the other and have thoughts of women in their heads ????

    I do, why.... there eyes where open when they slapped it in, still open when there wiping the shit off !!!!

    (Yes Teagan i'm ignoring you ?!!)

    BTW i've spoken to that DMX dude before, i've been told he was this GFK dude, he seems alright to me. I think the pair of you should pm each other coz you seem to have alot in common :naughty: (Tea & Silver)

    Silverberg, I'm PMing DMX after this just to tell him what you said, I think its very cowardly posting a flame about a guy on a thread he's not subscribed on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    I'm not a homophobe, but I can't understand how people can think one guy wanking another off is anything other then at least homoerotic?(not to me) If not full blown homosexual behaviour.

    You're a tad thick, aren't you? The point that everyone else seems to understand except you is that just because through hormones/horniness and experimentation, all4u indulged in a homosexual act BUT it does not make him a homosexual.
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    Can I take it then Silverberg that you are a person who has experimented with stuff like this?

    It's usually the guys like you who protest so much that have something to hide ...

    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    If you read my other posts you'll see I can change my opinion if people use good arguments. Telling me that prisoners fucking each other isn't gay either isn't gonna change my mind. I doubt you read this full thread because you seem not well informed and probably read one post and said "he hates my kind".

    Once again, thicko, you don't seem to read properly. I never said that gay sex between prisoners was not gay-orientated - but it doesn't make them homosexual. Read the fucking dictionary, why don't you? A homosexual is one who has an ATTRACTION to the same sex. Prisoners do it as a form of sexual release - NOT because they FANCY men. Likewise, with all4u, he had a gay-orientated sexual encounter but it does NOT make him gay.

    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    (Yes Teagan i'm ignoring you ?!!)

    Only because you're too thick to understand something that no one else seems to have a problem with. You must be dead proud using the word "homosexual" - such a long word!!!
    Originally posted by Demon Hunter
    BTW i've spoken to that DMX dude before, i've been told he was this GFK dude, he seems alright to me. I think the pair of you should pm each other coz you seem to have alot in common :naughty: (Tea & Silver)

    Silverberg, I'm PMing DMX after this just to tell him what you said, I think its very cowardly posting a flame about a guy on a thread he's not subscribed on.

    Ooooh! Tell tales why don't you?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Demon hunter, your comments were inappropriate. Everyone else, don't get drawn into these arguments, it doesn't help anyone.
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