Should I???

Former Member

I am realy confused about the guy I am crushing on b/c he's such a contradiction, and I need help from an 3rd party to see if what I am feeling is straight up or not...this guy, Al, is really nice, extremely smart, funny as hell, a perfect gentleman, extremely romantic, and fairly athletic. That's his good side; his dark side, and we're talking Darth Vader darkside here is in his not too distant past, he has slept with quite a few girls(think hundreds here; but I went with him when he got HIV tested and he's HIV-), he's a recovering heroin addict, he dabbled in vampireism, and he's Kurt Cobain depressed a lot of the time. Some of that he's not doing anymore; he still drinks and parties hardier than anyone we've ever seen around here, and well, he's charmingly semi Satanic...so what do I do with a hot dreamy guy who's a lot that all of us gurls desire, but has the past that nightmares are made of, and doesn't seem all that far removed from that past? :eek2:

Former Member

hey!
well i think if you like him that much then you should go for him but i dont think you should get too involved right now or you could end up being hurt or dragged into his bad habits.

xxx;)

Former Member

Oh God, I'm living the same thing, except I'm the guy this time. I think that if you're the right girl for him, you can help him be happy. But don't change him, and be yourself.

Former Member

Nah, forget him. He sounds screwed up, and will be a nightmare. Do you honestly think you can live with the depression, etc. It'd drive you nuts. Forget him. Move on.

Mr_Wobble

Former Member

thats the past just look towards the future. if you like him then go for it? whats there to loose?

Former Member

Originally posted by vodka babe
whats there to loose?

Common sense. Sanity. Mind. Friends.

Mr_Wobble

Former Member

This belongs in Relationships