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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm 16 and i have a girlfriend of 4 months, we now about to have sex but i'm afraid that i will not last very long and she will laugh!! i'm a virgin while she isn't so how can i ensure that i will last longer in bed? Please give suggestions, how do all you people last for so long there must be tips

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay i'll let you in on a little technique. If you feel that you're going to come what you do is wait a sec and grip the base of your penis tight (not TOO tight! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> ) and after a couple of seconds the 'almost there' sensation should go and you can keep on at it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seriously?

    Masturbate before the date. It'll release some of the ... er ... urgency, and make you take a bit longer for the second orgasm of the day.

    Of course, wearing a condom does help many men last longer too, since it just ever-so-slightly reduces direct sensation. So a condom can be your best friend in many ways. Never be without one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey And Welcome To The Site!!

    Hey there before you go out on a date just masterbate and I mean leave it to the last 20 minutes before going out because you dont want to masterbate about 2 hrs before you go and dont think about the sex as much because you will get horny and just ejaculate as soon as you get your penis into her and take things slow and gently it will last for ever lol!! Hope I helped! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But wash your hands last thing before leaving <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ben,

    Hope that this helps: http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/other_sex_issues/premature_ejaculation.html

    Take Care. <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay, maybe I'm going to take the idealistic approach here, but really NO-ONE expects the first time to be perfect. Longevity is something which comes ('scuse the pun) with age and experience, and quite frankly if she's going to laugh she's not worth it in the first place. The most important thing to be is confident in yourself and it'll show.

    You the man, baby. Show her who's the daddy.
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get drunk but not to drunk u cant get it up or remember it!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah get drunk get stoned and then ur on ur way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The thread has degenerated into stupidity, so I'm closing it.

    First time sex and drugs/lots of alcohol is not necessarily a good idea: http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/sex_and_drugs.html
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