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Stupid question I know....but.......

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hey all, I'm new here and I just really want a sexual question answered by any opinion going...
I recently had a movie-night in with my mate, her boyfriend and my boyfriend. I got the most drunk and I remember my boyfriend & I kissing on her bed. And now I don't know what happened! I'm scared I did it with him, but I can't remember. My mate says I wasn't in the room long enough to have done it and I'm too embarrased to ask him! What should I do...? How can you tell if you've done it...?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi dude, welcome to the site. It's a nice place with nice people! Stay awhile <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    (yay! got there first!)

    as far as i know, the only way to tell if you did it is to ask him, but maybe someone else here will have a better suggestion...

    do you think your bf is the kind of person who would go ahead and have sex with you if you were too drunk to know what you were doing?

    i hope things get sorted out soon!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well what state did you wake up in??? clothed or not?? that could be a hint.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kicker-of-Elves:
    hi dude, welcome to the site. It's a nice place with nice people! Stay awhile <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    (yay! got there first!)


    o dear, now people i don't even know are using my lines. thanks kicker. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    hello jaycee. welcome to thesite. as kicker said it's a nice place with nice people. stay awhile.

    as for this situation, the only real way you're gonna know is if you ask him or go to the doctor.

    there isn't any other real way to get confirmation.

    i hope this works out for you.

    good luck.


    [This message has been edited by Calvin (edited 25-06-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I'm gonna wade into the deep end here so tell me to shut the **** up if you like.

    If you've gotta ask "How can you tell if you've done it...? " then I'm guessing you were/are a virgin??

    If so I think there would be a few painful signs if you had sex that lasted any longer than a few seconds. If you did I would be primarily concerned about being pregnant because maybe you weren't prepared for it??

    Again if so, forget being embarassed and JUST ASK!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats true but a doctor can't tell if your a virgin or not. Obviously you should get the mornign after or it may be too late now....umm depending on the length it's been you should really find out if you are pregnant. Don't worry bout whether or not you 'Did it' just sort things first.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    Thats true but a doctor can't tell if your a virgin or not.

    A doctor CAN tell if you're a virgin or not.

    Maybe you should just ask your boyfriend, but also think if he's the type of guy to take advantage of you.



    [This message has been edited by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*] (edited 27-06-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    A doctor CAN tell if you're a virgin.

    Not always.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    A doctor CAN tell if you're a virgin or not.

    Just out of interest, how?

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Just out of interest, how?


    with photos, please! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    im guessing she means that if the hymen is intact, then the person's still a virgin. but as its been mentioned MANY times before, the hymen can be broken before intercourse. so it proves nothing basically. i suppose the presence of semen or pubic hairs from someone else could be used... but thats used more in rape cases than determining virginity i woulda thought...
    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    im guessing she means that if the hymen is intact, then the person's still a virgin. but as its been mentioned MANY times before, the hymen can be broken before intercourse. so it proves nothing basically. i suppose the presence of semen or pubic hairs from someone else could be used... but thats used more in rape cases than determining virginity i woulda thought...



    It has nothing to do with the hymen. I kind of forgot how, but it has to do with when you get tested for a certain disease and that they can tell. I'll look up my notes and let all of you know.
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