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making love or having sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Making love or having sex?

Girls, in my experience, have always insisted there's a world of difference!
With someone you love, you're making love, but with someone you just fancy, you're having sex. But how could that be? I mean, you go through much the same actions, either way: you kiss, you fondle, you caress. Still sometimes, if you're not bloody careful, you can screw up things and end up having sex with the lady you're supposed to love and make love to, and then she feels insulted and you're a callous pig! And you are not!! You just can't understand those maddening subtleties of female thinking.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Having sex is part of making love. You can have sex with someone you dont care about, someone you meet for a night or something. Thats just having sex.

    Making love involves a lot more. You have sex but theres a lot more to it. Sex isjust physical gratification but making love is a lot better.

    at least thats how i see it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to me haveing sex is a mad romp in a bush or down an alley (wotever turns u on!) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; but making love is more important, you are with someone you love and trust n u wana get to know someone through a sexual relationship
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my gf have been together for over a year, and we make love. Sometimes we fuck like rabbits, but there is still love in it, so no matter what we do we love each other, or making love.

    If you don't love the person you are with then you fuck/shag/romp

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I argee with cuteassedkitty there sex is something you do with out feeling making love involes emotions
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Having sex is the act; making love is sex with someone you love - there's something more in it than lust.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Having sex is like buying a brand new CD. But making love is like taking that CD home and playing it and knowing every word

    I dunno where I heard that, but I pretty much agree with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I make love to me gf, no matter what im doing to her, but if its just a one-night stand its just a shag. The emotions of love during sex are what turns a fuck into making love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I bet making love is far more better than just sex. But u know, u have to have sex to appreciate what 'making love' means. so...

    u got to practice both, to 'know ur enemy' <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is it possible therefore to make love to the person you're with if u haven't already had sex?
    xxxs
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    [This message has been edited by ~SeaShihtzu~ (edited 20-11-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~SeaShihtzu~:
    Is it possible therefore to make love to the person you're with if u haven't already had sex?
    xxxs

    Yeah, but you dont know you are....its strange, but its only really possible to know how much better it feels to make love if youve had a loveless shag.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Amen to THAT!

    I've got lady friends here that'll have Me over for a night and, even though I'm pretty fond of them, it's NOTHING compared to curling up (Heck,I don't even NEED the intercourse at that point) with a woman I'm emotionally connected to.

    The former is FUN. The latter borders on a religeous experience.

    Get the GF on top (So You can hold Her at the same time) and...AWESOME STUFF!

    [This message has been edited by Treadhead (edited 24-11-2001).]
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