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Warning!! Big Moan...
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Oh my God, i'm tired of men. The other night this guy who I had been seeing on and off went off with my best friend, I spilt a pint over him - started a fight with my friend - and all in front of work people on the xmas do. 
I feel really gutted. I made up with my best friend, but as for the guy, I just feel a bit heartbroken and angry. I'm not talking to him, even though rationally I know he can do whatever he likes.
And then there's my ex. I saw him last night, and I ended up feeling so sorry for him. His house was a mess, and he looked like he'd let himself go so much. He was sat on the sofa mumbling about something or other flicking the tv channels, with about 3 cats sat on him. :eek2:
I went upstairs to use the toilet, and was horrified to see the state of everything. I couldn't believe that this is what happened to a man I once loved more than the world itself.
We had sex, and it lasted 30 seconds. I really felt for him. I'm not too sympathetic though, as he spent most of his time telling me how clingly I am with men, and how I expect too much.
So now, the two men who I thought I had connections with have now disappeared into thin air.
Sometimes it's sooo hard to pick yourself up again time after time.
Men. Pah. :rolleyes:
I feel really gutted. I made up with my best friend, but as for the guy, I just feel a bit heartbroken and angry. I'm not talking to him, even though rationally I know he can do whatever he likes.
And then there's my ex. I saw him last night, and I ended up feeling so sorry for him. His house was a mess, and he looked like he'd let himself go so much. He was sat on the sofa mumbling about something or other flicking the tv channels, with about 3 cats sat on him. :eek2:
I went upstairs to use the toilet, and was horrified to see the state of everything. I couldn't believe that this is what happened to a man I once loved more than the world itself.
We had sex, and it lasted 30 seconds. I really felt for him. I'm not too sympathetic though, as he spent most of his time telling me how clingly I am with men, and how I expect too much.
So now, the two men who I thought I had connections with have now disappeared into thin air.
Sometimes it's sooo hard to pick yourself up again time after time.
Men. Pah. :rolleyes:
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Its very difficult being tidy-minded by nature, when you are living with six messy students and jobseekers.
Four of them have left today, and I spent an hour putting away 20 dirty plates etc, wiping each surface, cleaning the cooker top, and the bins... FFS
Half of my bread was gone as well.
lol. :hugs:
I feel better already :eek2: