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men have feelings too (alternative thinking on oral sex)
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I know there have been lots of other posts about oral sex and spitting or swallowing, but this approach is so different it deserves its own post topic. I am a man and I just wish women would think about guys feelings more with these things because they normally ask other women about what they think guys think, us males never get consulted and girls seem to assume guys are just robots programmed for sex and nothing else. BUT GUYS HAVE FEELINGS TOO! When it comes to the spit or swallow debate, take it from a guy. Most guys want you to swallow. Its more of an emotion thing than a sexual thing, its symbolic because a guys semen carries his d.n.a and if you reject his semen it feels like you're rejecting him. Also i think it's a little unfair a debate because when a guy gives a woman oral sex, he HAS to swallow her juices, and lets face it, its not the most pleasant tasting substance but guys do it without complaining because it gives their partners pleasure. How would you girls feel if a guy said "if i have to go down on you, i'll only do it with a piece of cling-film inbetween so i dont have to taste you? maybe you girls should re-think your approach. Im not saying you have to give guys oral sex, but if you are gonna do it then do it properly!!!!
MANCMANOMYST LAMBERTINI:
THE THEORY NOT THE SYMPTOM
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rejecting his DNA? ROFL.
If my gf doesnt wanna swallow cos it tastes like shit then thats fine with me. If she wants to then thats fine as well. Emotional? Blowjobs?
Im not quite sure what youve been doing with your girlfriend but Ive never swalled her juices. Its not as though you tilt her over and drink.
i should have put a disclaimer for the morrons of this planet who have no feelings in the first place!
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You honestly expect me to believe that if your gf doesnt swallow that you feel rejected and that your DNA is inadequate?
Do a survey. Ask 100 men whether they see a blowjob as an emotional or a sexual thing..I think we will see whos right <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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*crap alert*
nah mate, interesting theory, but wrong. mainly cos we just disproved it. =P
If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
My gf dont swallow much cos it tastes horrible as fuck, and thats fine by me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> I wouldnt wanna be forced to taste it, so I aint gonna force her!
But seeing as you dont seem to care bout the lass as much, you really should just fuck off. Twat.
***LET THE FLAMING COMMENCE***
It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
ure just not very mature. when you grow up and become a real man you'll understand, but until then theres no point talking
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idiot alert. we have a little boys still playing with his imaginary frieds because he has nothing better to do
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sorry, im on the wrong message board. im looking for the one for intelectuals, or atleast, people with their own minds, not the childrens nursery
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You are so much more experienced and mature than us lesser men.
You said that most men feel the way you said. Im afraid thats just not true. Most men see a blowjob as a purely sexual thing...If it were a bigtime emotional experience then why do i see people getting blowjobs from strangers round the back of my local pub every weekend? Dunno about you but I dont have much emotional attachment to a girl ive just met in the pub.
Well I guess being a 'real' man puts a different perspective on things right.
if you taste so bad, you are obviously eating the wrong foods. try fruit.Who said anything about forcing anyone to do anything? Ive never forced anyone to do anything in my life, and you are in no place to make a judgement about my relationship because you know fuck all about it! Grow up. I cant believe so many of the guys who use this are so emotionally immature. Mind you, if you've got nothing better to do than post messages to this site you're hardly gonna be a well rounded individual!
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you must be really sad if you can afford to spend so much time on the net. I could explain the psycho-physio link and the concepts of sexual psychology, but you wouldnt understand and i have better things to do.
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Well you just posted 4 seperate messages, one after another on a thread. Just what does that say about you?
Can you please explain why we are all emotionally immature. Id genuinely like to know how you come up with that. Please elaborate.
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In case you missed it, you are also on the net and have posted an awful lot of messages in this thread.
Obviously you dont otherwise you wouldnt have continued making so many posts on the one thread.
Oh and the insults dont work so well..Its 11:50pm on a sunday evening. I think you will find that most people in the country are at home at the moment.
[This message has been edited by Balddog (edited 25-11-2001).]
Immature no, emotionally damaged maybe. Hypocrite, wtf are you doing posting messages here then for?! and btw i'm a very well rounded individual, guinness see's to that!
***LET THE FLAMING CONTINUE***
All evil needs to thrive is for good men to sit back and do nothing
lol, the people that use the internet to slag people off, purely for using the internet, always make me laugh.
some people like to swallow, some dont. it doesnt exactly taste like peaches and cream, whatever you eat. its got nothing to do with rejection of DNA and emotions, it's a sexual act <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">
oh, and as for being well rounded individuals... came across this.